Raymond Lam: “Finally, I want to say a few words to my aunt’s daughter. Of course, she may not be able to see my live broadcast.

But I still want to say a few words.

In the eyes of our parents, it doesn’t matter whether we young people love each other or not. What matters is that we get married.

It doesn’t matter whether you are happy or not, what matters is that you get married.

They simply like to watch the fun and like to see newlyweds get married and have many children and grandchildren.

Everything is just for one’s own perfection.

And it is very likely that they will not cover you for your wrong marriage.

Just like when we were little, we said we wanted to have a cat or a dog.
My parents would advise me to take care of myself first since I’m still young.

Or can you afford it? Are you able to take responsibility for it?

A puppy is also a life, you have to think clearly.

But we were never told this when we were asked to have children.

You are 26 this year.

Graduated with a master’s degree.

You have been abroad and seen a different world.

There are still infinite excitement and unknowns in your life.

This is probably why you don’t want to come back.

I admire your courage and appreciate your rebelliousness.

Next time mom urges you to come back and get married,
You don’t have to use work as an excuse to fool her anymore, just tell her directly.

I am neither a non-marriage advocate nor a single advocate.

I am a hedonist, I am a eudaimonist.

If you urge and force me now, it will only make me more determined. I don’t want to become an adult like you in the future.

I don’t want to have a family like this.

I don’t want to live like this anymore.
I’ve had enough, and I’m scared of it.

All my efforts and struggles now are for the day in the future when I can confidently tell my children:
The fact that mom didn’t become rich has nothing to do with giving birth to you.

Mom’s terrible life has nothing to do with you.

Mom and Dad’s failure is not because of you.

It’s not your problem that I have a bad relationship with your father.

younger sister,

Don’t be afraid to flip the table.

Overturning the table is the prerequisite for harmony.

Because your parents actually expect a strong response from you.

Expect you to hard-hit them.

Tell them out loud: I can handle my own life.

Trust me,
Filial piety and rebellion are not contradictory.

I love you guys, but I really don’t want to copy your life.

So I don’t want to repeat your life and expect a different outcome.

Ordinary family, ordinary background.

If you expect the same result.

In the early stages there will definitely be a lot of rebellious and incomprehensible behavior.

Just like me at this moment,
Many of you criticized my remarks on the public screen.

But after several years, if people can see the self-introduction of “Marriage and Rebellion” in advance,

I will definitely edit this paragraph of my proposition into a PDF file, hang it in my live broadcast room like Spring Festival couplets, and update it irregularly every year.

I am not here to criticize my parents or the generation older than us. We are just tiny individuals swept away by the tide of the times.

Different backgrounds will produce different ideas, which will be iterated.

Including us now.

Right or wrong is no longer important.

Everyone is responsible for their own life.

Whoever wants to get married, go get married.
If parents really want to get married, let them get married a second time. If they are not satisfied with the second marriage, they can get married a third or fourth time. “

. . . . .

On the barrage.

“Really? When I was a kid, I wanted to raise a puppy but was told I couldn’t keep it alive. Why do people keep urging me to have a child? Are children easier to raise than dogs? (Smile)”

“My dad died of stomach cancer. My mom said he died of anger because I couldn’t have children. Now it’s been a year. I asked her if that was really the case. She said I was being petty. Did I want her to die? (I give up.)”

“Many stomach cancers are caused by poor digestion and eating habits, so whoever cooks for your father is responsible (dog head).”

Cow batch!

Hahahaha.

“I am a mother of a 21-year-old son. My son also has this kind of thinking. I once thought that children’s prejudice against life was a manifestation of childish thinking and even a lack of understanding of family affection.

After watching your live broadcast today and watching what you said just now, I felt like a blank area in my brain was unlocked. It turns out that our generation accommodated too much and cared too much about other people’s feelings. In the final analysis, we lived for others, which in itself is wrong.

Why should I let my children replicate my life?

You are right. We only have a few short decades to live. We should live our life to our heart’s content and be responsible for our own life.

Your live broadcast today shocked me. I can’t say it completely changed my thinking, but it made me re-examine my views on future life.”

“It is a blessing for children to have such open-minded parents like you!”

“Why when I showed the live broadcast to my mom, she said the military advisor was talking nonsense and told him to get lost (covering his face).”

Military Advisor: Why didn’t I tell you to get out? (Smile)
Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

okay,

Next person.

Ding~
“Hey!”

? ?
Lin Feng: “We are not sisters, why are you sighing? You come here and sigh, you demon, you suck my yang energy.”

Lin Feng pinched his nose first, and Yu Huanshui followed closely.

The woman was stunned for a moment, and the barrage of comments went crazy with laughter.

“Hahahaha you suck my yang energy.”

“Are you two serious about pinching your noses? (Laughing to death)”

“I was just dozing off, but you woke me up with laughter, hahaha.”

“Yang Qi? This anchor is really humorous!”

“Come and breathe in some COVID-19.”

“Suck away the yang, and all that’s left is the yin (sunglasses).”

“Specializes in sucking small yang people (covering face).”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

Raymond Lam: “I was just kidding, sister. When I heard you sigh, I knew you were worried. I was just trying to cheer you up.”

Girl: “Thank you, Advisor. I am a little tired recently, so I want to talk to you about emotional issues.”

Lin Feng: “If you want to talk about feelings, then you have come to the right place. Don’t be sad, sister. Believe in the strength of the military advisor.”

Girl: “Okay! But don’t scold me, because I am a little bit in love.”

Raymond Lam: “Don’t worry, sister. I usually don’t scold people who are in love, because people who are in love are meant to kill.”

Uh. .

. . . . . .

“I usually don’t curse” “Kill directly”

“I’d rather kill the wrong person than let him go.”

Hahahaha.

“I’m really not jealous of the money that the military advisor makes (sunglasses).”

“Hahaha, he should make the money by helping the love-brained man escape from the sea of ​​suffering.”

“No, because I used my voice to exchange it (raised eyebrows).”

“And his spirit is getting more and more insane (crying to death).”

“Military Advisor’s Quotes: One of the world and I has to go crazy, right? (Smile)”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: “Come on, sister.”

Girl: “It’s like this. My husband and I have been married for 12 years and have two daughters. My husband is a model husband and a model father in everyone’s eyes.
He is indeed an honest and decent person in everyone’s eyes, simple and kind, very family-oriented, and very responsible, but… he cheated.”

? ?
Raymond Lam: “No, we are not sisters. You turned around and directly hit my hips. Is this a normal expression for humans?”

Uh. .

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“This reversal directly hit my hips”

“After so much preparation, you finally say you cheated (grin)”

“Frog fun! This reversal came so unexpectedly (covering face).”

“It’s not just unexpected, it’s impossible to guard against (wipes sweat).”

Hahahaha.

“Sister-in-law has cooked breakfast for nothing for so many years (dog head).”

“What a model husband (sunglasses)!”

“Key point: Honest, dutiful and kind (raised eyebrows).”

“Explode!”

“It’s pretty explosive in the entire explosive world (thumbs up).”

. . . . .

Raymond Lam: “Who is the person you cheated with?”

Girl: “She was his subordinate, and then the rumor spread in the company that this female subordinate wanted to get a permanent job, so she showed concern for him, bought him breakfast, and treated him well in various ways.

Then, around this time last year, I discovered their ambiguous WeChat chats.
At that time, he told me that fortunately I found out in time and he stopped his wrongdoing, so I forgave him. “

Raymond Lam: “I am using this to tell everyone that there is no such thing as mental infidelity.

When a person has an emotional affair, it has already opened his bottom line and opened a door that he has set up for defense.

As I said, there is no limit to the severity of cuckoldry.

Moreover, they chatted so much on WeChat. If they meet again in real life at work, do you think the actual conditions are ripe, with the right time, right place and right people, wouldn’t something happen between them?

Remember, mental infidelity is a precursor to physical infidelity.

There is no such thing as pure mental infidelity.

Everyone starts with chatting and interacting.

Of course, there is no need to communicate with animals, you can just spend some money to mate with them.

But many people encountered problems while chatting.

So when you first discover that he is mentally cheating, you must make sure he knows the pain.
If you don’t pursue it, just forgive me with a few simple words.
It means you gave him the opportunity to cheat physically.”

. . . . .

On the barrage.

“Are green hats classified into dark green and light green? (dog head)”

“You should always choose the one you like (sunglasses).”

“Children make choices, they should all be chosen (raised eyebrows).”

You fuck

Hahahaha.

“They say they flirt on WeChat, but actually there must have been a lot of physical contact during work (grin).”

“Just match it (dog head).”

“I won’t be going to biology class tomorrow morning, I’ve found a better teacher (sunglasses).

Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

Girl: “He said nothing happened at the time, we were just chatting on WeChat.

Later, he deleted her WeChat in front of me, and also blocked the woman’s Douyin account.

But this year, when I checked his WeChat bill, I checked his previous bills and found the problem. “

Lin Feng: “Sister, your IQ is worrying, what does it mean that he deleted WeChat?

They are from the same company, and they see each other every day. They may spend more time together than you do. “

The girl was silent.

Lin Feng: “And let me tell you, you are just too stupid and have no brains.

Didn’t your husband follow that girl’s Douyin? You should have remembered her ID and followed her secretly later.

why?
Because you can judge a person’s character by his voice.

If your husband has already developed an ambiguous relationship with her, then you open her TikTok,

I found that she was the type who always wore a tight skirt.
She also likes to lean on the door frame, deliberately sticking out her chest and buttocks.

If all her works are like this, I tell you, she will not let your husband go.

Not only women, but men as well.

If the guys in the room find out that someone is deliberately hitting on your girlfriend or wife,

And this man’s Douyin works are all bright and rooster-like,

Wearing tight jeans, and showing off your abdominal muscles.
Don’t worry, he won’t let your wife go.”

. . . . .

On the barrage.

“Tight Hip Skirt” “Leaning against the Door Frame”

“This kid has seen this a lot (dog head).”

“Big brother is a surfing expert (sunglasses).”

Hahahaha.

“If there’s anything like this in the live broadcast room, please send it to me (raised eyebrows).”

“I’m going to go see my girlfriend Douyin right away.”

“A big, bright cock (dog’s head).”

Cluck?
Hahahahaha

. . . . . .

Girl: “But I heard from my husband that this woman had an affair with a man from his unit, and then the man’s wife came to us. She has a criminal record.”

Lin Feng laughed: “You really believe it, sister?

Your husband is spreading rumors about other people!
Because only in this way can he be completely free from his relationship. You see, this woman is not a decent person.

She must have been the one who seduced my husband.

He is trying to divert your attention.

Why can I be so sure?

Because everyone who has worked in the company knows it.

The people below dare not touch the boss’s woman.

There are no secrets in the office.

Your husband and she work in the same company, and they flirt with each other every day. Every tiny move they make is noticed by others.

Everyone knows about the boss’s woman, so who among the employees would dare to touch her?

Your husband is now throwing dirty water on her, which is an act of passing the buck.

Sister, your husband is not a man and has no responsibility. “

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“There are no secrets in the office” and “Don’t dare to touch the boss’s woman”

“keen!”

“The analysis is too real.”

“Every sentence is a classic!”

“Trivia: The prettiest girl in the workplace is not what you think (dog head).”

“What?”

“The beautiful girl has already been taken, so the working man should just stay quiet and do his best.”

“As someone who’s been there, there’s nothing new under the sun (raised eyebrow).”

Wise words!

. . . .

Girl: “She and my husband are in the past tense. Now my husband…”

Lin Feng: “Your husband, your husband, if you don’t believe me, just wait and see. What is going to happen will definitely happen.”

The girl was silent for a while and then said, “Actually…it has already happened.”

Lin Feng rolled his eyes and said, “Then you don’t allow me to say that your husband is not good?
You love your husband so much and are so tolerant of him, so don’t come here to ask me.

The husbands of some of these people are crystal husbands.

She is pure and innocent, without a single flaw. It was she who seduced your husband, and it was she who took the initiative.
Your husband is a gentleman of morals.

Your husband is honest, kind and honest.

He was not disturbed at all.
First there was an emotional affair, and I predicted that it would be followed by something even more outrageous.

Now that my prediction has been confirmed, why are you still washing here?

Find him another excuse, and you two will live happily ever after.”

. . . . .

On the barrage.

“I wish you two a happy marriage. Hahaha, the military advisor’s mouth is crooked with anger.”

“My crystal husband (laughing to death).”

“My pure and innocent husband is cheating on me (dog head).”

“Did this sister come up to give the husband a name?”

“Lock Zhu 99 immediately.”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Girl: “After I found the bill this year, I found out that he had transferred 200 or 500 yuan to me every month for two years before I found out. In total, he transferred about 520 yuan for two years, which is yuan.”

???

Raymond Lam: “No, sister, is your husband handsome?
If you pay 200 or 500 a month, will this girl also work with your husband?

How about sending away beggars?”

Girl: “Sometimes he sent 950 on the first day and 50 on the second day, which made a total of 1000 yuan. I was also confused and didn’t know how this happened. He still denied it at the time.”

Lin Feng: “Your husband must have promised her something, otherwise who would agree to such a small amount of money?

Your husband must have made a promise to others and provided assistance in terms of rights.
For example, they helped her get a permanent job and gave her some convenience in terms of her job authority.
For example, she is given priority to sign big contracts, and she can also take leave occasionally.

Also, your husband must have used some sweet talk to attack you.
I suggest you confront this girl directly. Maybe it was your husband who hooked up with someone else first, and it wasn’t this girl who seduced your husband.”

The woman stopped talking again.

Lin Feng said angrily: “I have said that some of these people are Crystal’s husbands. Tell me the truth, is your husband really handsome?
Are you as handsome as me?

To be honest, I don’t have the confidence that I can pay a girl 200 or 500 yuan a month and make her follow me wholeheartedly.

You have been married for 12 years, have two daughters, and he is a company leader.

I usually drink alcohol at social events every day.

That beer belly is probably bigger than when you were pregnant.
To be honest, I can’t walk unless I pull my belt up a little because of my belly.

His leather shoes are polished every day until they are brighter than his forehead.

The company went to KTV for team building, and had to say a few simple words before singing.

The song has been repeated 18 times, and I haven’t finished my two sentences.

After finally finishing the talk, the songs they sang were either about mothers or about soldiers.

It’s still the old-fashioned bel canto singing style.

What do you think the girl would like about him?

It must be that your husband used sweet words, some power traps, and took advantage of his position in the company to seduce the girl.
Your husband is morally corrupt and a scumbag.

The girl is ignorant, are you also ignorant?
You have a wife, and it is normal for single people to admire you, because you, as a boss, have certain authority and status in the company.

It’s normal for people to admire you.

But you have a wife and children, you can’t control yourself,
It’s your husband’s problem.
die! “

Uh. .

. . . . .

On the barrage.

“The KTV team-building scene was too realistic, hahahaha.”

“I died of laughter at the leader’s singing (haha).”

“Oh my god, my boss always sings about mother or father at the annual meeting every year, with authentic Bel Canto singing (laughing to death).”

“We may be from the same company (sunglasses).”

Hahahaha.

“Speaking of the belt, Brother Shui is acting in the background (covering his face).”

“Hahahaha, I saw that too.”

“Thumbs up to Brother Shui, he’s very cooperative.”

“When his pants were pulled up, Brother Shui didn’t seem very smart (dog head).”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Girl: “But my relative told me about the incident where my colleague’s wife went to their company and made trouble. My relative also works in his company. I heard from my relative that this woman had a criminal record.”

Lin Feng: “Your husband didn’t even bother to hide it, and even told all relatives and everyone in the company that it was known. He didn’t care about your face at all, so your husband deserves to die.”

Uh. .

. . . . .

On the barrage.

“Hahaha, the military advisor is full of energy again.”

“It’s mainly just cursing (dog heads).”

“Study hard.”

“Military Advisor’s little mouth is chattering, and sister-in-law can’t handle it.”

Hahahaha.

. . . . .

Girl: “Later I also looked for this woman because my husband transferred 5000 yuan to her. I asked her to pay it back, but she said she had no money and paid me yuan a month. Now she has paid me yuan.”

Lin Feng: “You are also an awesome sister. Your husband only transfers 200 yuan a month. To be honest, this money is not enough to wash your feet.
Finally you got the money back.

Help your husband get prostitutes for free?

You are such a good wife.

Just for this reason, I would never divorce you, you are so virtuous. “

Uh. .

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

“I cheated for two years and spent 30,000 yuan. Do you want the money back? (Confused)”

“The King of Freeloaders is Born (Doghead).”

“What is ability (thumbs-up).”

“This is the first time I feel sorry for the mistress (dying of laughter).”

“The world has finally turned upside down and I can’t understand it (grin).”

Hahahaha.

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: “I’m going to have a stupidity attack, sister, just tell me your problem.”

Girl: “The problem is that I am quite self-defeating right now.”

Lin Feng: “You deserve it!”

? ?
Raymond Lam: “The problem lies with your husband, but you dare not investigate him. You come to me and talk about it for a long time.

Either they say that the girl has a criminal record, or they say that the girl is not decent.

Have you really proven what the girl is like?
Isn’t that what your husband and relatives told you?
Listen to what your husband says, he must be trying to pass the buck.

Anyway, I’ve been sleeping here for two years and I’m tired of it.

You listen to what your relatives say, do you think your relatives will support you?
If someone works for your husband, even if they are your closest relative, they will help your husband to deceive you.

Why?

He has to eat.

Your husband is his god of wealth and the one who provides him with food and clothing.

If he breaks you two up, will he be able to keep his job?

Don’t say that your relatives are realistic, because human nature is to seek benefits and avoid harm.

Look at yourself, aren’t you the same?

Even though it is your husband who is cheating on you, you dare not have any emotions towards him.

Don’t make excuses.

If you have the guts, go and give him the cold shoulder.

You have the ability to ask him to write a property agreement for you.

If you have the ability, do something against him.

You do not dare.

From what you just said, I can basically judge that your husband may not even sincerely apologize to you, but just perfunctorily admit it.
But you forgave me.”

. . . . .

On the barrage.

“You deserve it, you deserve it, you two are made for each other.”

“The military advisor didn’t say a single wrong thing.”

“She just doesn’t dare to tear her husband apart.”

“You don’t have a job, do you?”

“possible.”

“She wants to be persuaded and this live broadcast room is not suitable for her.”

“Lock it up.”

. . . . .

Raymond Lam: “Although I may be a little sharp in my words, believe me, I am definitely healing you and I have no ill will towards you.”

Girl: “I know.”

That’s good.

Lin Feng grinned: “Sister, get ready, I’m going to start.”

???

The girl looked confused.

What the hell?

Haven’t you already finished scolding me?
What started? ?
While the girl was confused, Lin Feng started firing.

“Your crystal husband and his beautiful subordinate in black stockings are in the office every day, showing affection and tenderness.

As a result, when he gets home from get off work, he gives you the cold shoulder and gets angry with you.

You think your husband was seduced, so do you think he took off his pants by himself?
No way,
You believe all this?

That girl may have a bad taste **** (800 words omitted here)
younger sister. “

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“Oh my god, what a lewd and lewd word!”

“My mother!”

“Help, hahahaha.”

“For the first time, I have a new understanding (covering my face).”

“Hahaha, is that so specific?”

“So what are the 800 words that were omitted? (dog head)”

“Please look at vcr!”

“Hahahaha, Brother Shui is holding the blackboard and playing with cricket pupae in the back, which makes me laugh to death.”

“These two are playing a double act here (smile).”

“If I don’t mention it, every word I say will be a lie.”

“My sister-in-law became even more upset after hearing this.”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: “It’s okay, sister, it’s all over, just make up with each other, it’s okay.”

Girl: … (End of this chapter)