Chapter 236 Mom, Stop Hitting Me

Lin Feng finished speaking.

The barrage collapsed.

Various sounds arose and slowly formed into two sounds.

One opinion supporting Raymond Lam is that parents should reflect on themselves and be less restrictive.

The other group insists that the child is simply spoiled and must be beaten to become a filial son.

For a moment, the two voices were in a stalemate.

Raymond Lam didn’t want to say anything more about this topic, but at this time a comment caught his attention.

“Hello, Military Advisor. I am Jingjing’s school psychology teacher. I want to say a few words.”

Lin Feng raised his eyebrows and put the teacher on the microphone.

“Hello, teacher. What’s your name?”

“Just tell me to be quiet.”

Lin Feng: “Teacher An Jing, are you the school psychology teacher of that little girl just now?”

An Jing: “Yes, when I was giving psychological counseling to Jing Jing, she always told me your story.

She said that during the time when she was depressed, she could only find a little happiness and laugh by watching your videos.

Later, your live broadcast style changed, but many of the things you said touched her heart more and helped her regain her strength little by little.

I was very curious about what kind of person the brother Atong she was talking about was.

Actually, I have been watching your live broadcast room for a few days.

I particularly agree with many of your views.

The most important thing is your ability to empathize, which really touched me.

I feel like I am just a student in front of you.”

Lin Feng smiled and shook his head: “Teacher An Jing, please don’t say that, otherwise the brothers in the room will think you are my agent.”

An Jing: “It’s not a favor, it’s not a favor. Military Advisor, you may not know that Jing Jing was diagnosed with severe depression when she was in the first year of high school. The situation was very, very serious at the time.

My suggestion is to take a leave of absence.

But she just watched your video and came out little by little.

I really admire you.

I really need to learn from you.”

Lin Feng’s heart sank.

I felt the pressure on my shoulders again.

An Jing: “Especially the conversation you had with Jing Jing and her mother just now, it really inspired me, so I wanted to come up and thank you.”

Lin Feng: “Teacher An Jing is too modest.”

An Jing: “I came up here for another reason. I saw many people on the public screen beat their children when they were disobedient, so I wanted to come up and say a few words.

Lin Feng: “Then let’s ask the best high school psychology teacher in the city to give us brothers a lesson.”

An Jing: “No, no, no, I dare not teach casually in the military advisor’s live broadcast room.

Let me tell you a story, a story from my own experience.

Actually, I didn’t study psychology at first. I was a Chinese teacher.

There was a kid in my class who suddenly had an emotional outburst and wanted to commit suicide in front of me.

I chased him from one end of the corridor to the other. He was so excited that he wanted to jump.

I held his hand tightly, but he kept resisting.
He said… Teacher, please don’t stop me, teacher… Just let me die,

After I die, my whole family will be at peace.

I… I… my parents won’t fight because of me anymore, and they won’t hit me anymore.”

Teacher An Jing spoke with difficulty, her throat choking.

“I used to really like wearing high heels, but since then, I have never worn high heels at work again.
Because… I don’t know when… at what minute or second… I will rush out to chase the students,

Teacher An Jing finally couldn’t hold back and burst into tears.

She cried, “During all these years of studying, no class or teacher taught me how to face children with psychological problems, how to deal with these special situations?
At that time I read a book called Nonviolent Communication.
I taught the children in our class how to communicate with their parents according to different situations they might face.

But… the next morning the child came to me crying.
He said… Old… Teacher… What you taught me is totally useless.
Woo woo woo.

He said… That dead man and that crazy woman, they pulled me out of bed at about 12 o’clock in the middle of the night,

There was no original… I was beaten up,
Then I used the methods you taught me to communicate with them, but it didn’t work!!
Teacher An Jing recalled the past and burst into tears.

“That day… I talked to his mother on the phone for two hours. His mother told me, ‘Teacher, I’m not afraid of you laughing at me.’ My husband and I went to the Civil Affairs Bureau.

We both wanted to divorce, but we had to wait in line.
We both couldn’t get a number, and we couldn’t get a divorce that day. I got angry and beat him up that night.

After that… I tried hard for half a year, but… there was no effect.

I really feel sorry for him… He is so young… So thin…

I have scars all over my body every day…

Woohoo… I told him… The teacher really had no other options.

Can you study hard, pass the exam, and go to a high school far away… go to college… and leave this home…

Then… he jumped… ahhhh…

At that time, I really felt that the existence of teachers was a joke. . .

I used all the knowledge I had learned and tried my best, but I couldn’t help him…

I can’t save him either…

So I quit my job and studied psychology again, hoping to help the children. . . ”

After An Jing finished speaking, the public screen was silent for a long time.

After a while,
The barrage collapsed.

“I used all my life’s knowledge but couldn’t save him (crying to death).”

“Oh my god, how desperate must he be, he said “let me die” without hesitation in front of the teacher (burst into tears).”

“I will never wear high heels again because I don’t know when I will run out to chase students again (crying to death).” “I follow this teacher. This teacher is really a good person.”

“You should take a higher-end exam and leave this home. This is the best solution the teacher can come up with (woohoo).”

“But I can’t pass the exam, so…”

“You can’t get a divorce, so you have to beat your child?”

“What kind of parents are these? (Angry).”

“So the people who don’t want to have children are exactly the kind of people who are most suitable to be parents.”

“Really, because they know the responsibility is heavy.”

“Because they have suffered so much injustice, they understand what the right education is, but the more they know, the heavier their hearts become (sigh).”

. . . . . .

Lin Feng took a deep breath and said, “Thank you Teacher An Jing for sharing this story with us.”

“Thank you, Advisor, and thank you all for giving me this opportunity. Advisor, you are really great, and your language skills can help a lot of people.

I hope you will keep doing this.”

Lin Feng’s nose felt sore.

“Okay, let’s work together.”

“Well, goodbye, military advisor.”

Teacher Anjing left the microphone.

Unknown user: “Didn’t we all grow up like this back then? Kids nowadays are just spoiled. It’s better to spank them less. They will be obedient if you spank them more.”

Lin Feng stared at the comment and frowned: “Dude, you’re disgusting.

Really

You are a very disgusting person.

You feel proud of beating others, are you worthy of being a parent?
Violent education, you are hurting others, the children are scared by you beating, crying loudly,
And you have no sympathy for this kind of crying, you just feel obedient,
Then you might as well get a dog.

Dogs are more obedient.

remember,

People are not born to be someone else’s pet, and people are not born to be beaten by you.

Depend on!
There were even people who said on the public screen that the way of beating was wrong and taught others how to beat children.

What is the more scientific way to spank children?
Bros,
Just tell me how bad the environment is for us parents.

Even this can be learned.

Teach you how to beat your children scientifically?

I’m really fucking convinced.

Sometimes after beating your child, have you ever asked yourself a question?

Why is it that after we beat a child, the child makes peace with us 15 minutes later?

And after half a month or a month, we may still tell everyone about beating our children, treating it as a joke or to show off.

Any idea why this is happening?

why?
Because children love us far more than we love them!”

hiss~
The group of people who were shouting in the barrage just now were all silent at this moment.

Because children love us more than we love them

These words…

There’s really no way to refute that.

Because to a child, his parents are everything, but an adult’s everything is not just his children.

So what qualifications do you have to say that you beat your child out of love?
“I always ask my son, ‘Mom is sometimes mean to you, do you still love me?’ He said: ‘Yes, even though you are mean to me sometimes, I still love you very much (crying to death).”

“That’s me. Tears are coming down my cheeks just listening to this (woohoo).”

“If you still can’t control yourself and use violence, ask your child from a different perspective next time. Ask your child, ‘Child, how much do you think your mother loves you?’ I asked my daughter. When you get the answer, I believe you will force yourself to change, just like me.”

hiss~
My heart aches just thinking about it.

. . . . .

“@Military Advisor, what do you think of falling in love with a man who has a family?”

Raymond Lam: “It’s ugly, it’s shameful to watch, 53 people are all looking at me sideways.

All the men are dead, why are you falling in love with someone else’s husband?

And you… we are talking about family education.
What a profound and heavy topic.

You come here and say you want to be a mistress?

You are so damn stubborn.”

puff~
Hahahahaha.

After the girls did this, the originally tense atmosphere immediately became much more relaxed.

Lin Feng: “Let’s try to talk less about such sensitive topics in the future. There were 5 people in the live broadcast room just now, and I killed 6 people with just one microphone.

Damn it,

Next next.

Attached

[Military advisor’s comments: Every child was once an angel!

They once lay on the clouds and carefully selected their mothers.
They picked you.

Then I will throw away the countless treasures in the sky, come to you naked, like a little beggar with nothing.

He is like a slow snail, he can’t use chopsticks, and he can’t even tell his left hand from his left.

But they love you. 】

(End of this chapter)