Chapter 150 No topic is the beginning of love sublimation

Raymond Lam:

“Now to answer your second question.

You say you feel guilty and regretful?
There is actually nothing to regret.

Dude,

You have seven years of a girl’s youth.
You shouldn’t regret it.

You should just smile secretly.

Because in this era, few girls are willing to devote all their youth to a man.
You might say it’s not only her seven years, but also your seven years.

But it is obvious that, as you said, during the seven years of this relationship, the other party has been tolerating and accommodating you all the way.

You lack emotional care for the other person.
I have always said that relationships need to be managed, rather than just being self-centered and letting things develop on their own.

I always feel that since I am in a relationship with someone, that person should be nice to me and tolerant of me.

Dude,

In the past seven years, the girl has done her best.

It’s you who didn’t cherish it!

Seven years, and now he is 30 years old.

Dude,

You are not authentic!”

The man fell silent.

Raymond Lam: “As for you asking me if I want to save the relationship?”

Dude,

When you say this,
Don’t you already have the answer in your heart?

Finally, I’ll leave you with one sentence: Having nothing to say when we are together is more sad than losing you.

Go down.

. . . . .

“Having nothing to say to each other is more sad than losing you”

Woo woo woo,
So tearful.

“There is a cliff both forward and backward.”

“So I’d rather lose you.”

“It’s not that I have nothing to say, it’s because I’ve already told others what I wanted to say.”

“Ah? I feel like some people just don’t have the desire to share. They don’t mean to be silent.”

“But you weren’t like this at first.”

Well. . .

“This microphone connection is unreasonable, it makes me feel like a perpetrator (dog head)”

“I am the same (dog head)”

“Then why are you like this?”

“Why so many whys (dog head)”

“We just hope that everyone can live a peaceful life (dog head)”

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. . . . .

Raymond Lam:

“Brothers,

Good love is measured by depth, not length.

Being together for a very long time just sounds shocking and romantic, but the level of tacit understanding between two people may not be as good as that of some couples who have just been together.

I won’t discuss in too much detail the various factors involved in a long-term relationship without getting married.

I personally think that if you don’t have the urge to get married even during the period of passionate love, it will be difficult to have it again in the future.
Most of the successful long-term relationships we see have been preparing quietly.

I am speaking quite absolutely.

I hope you will be the exception.

Let’s talk about the problem of the other party in the relationship suddenly becoming cold.

This is called the flat period in a relationship.

All the brothers in our live broadcast room, listen up.

The dull period is not against the law, nor is it scary.

Whether it is love or marriage, there is a process. This process is the initial throbbing heartbeat.

Then comes the ambiguous period.

Love period,
Passion period,

Then to the calm period.

There is such a process.

Everyone will face this process, and as long as you are a human being, you will be no exception.

Because freshness is the throbbing heartbeat of hormones bursting out,

This thing will not and cannot exist forever.

So when two people encounter a dull period, the first thing they should not do is to think that the other person has fallen out of love with them.

This is actually a very normal process. The key is how you deal with the cooling-off period.

Maybe some people will choose to give up, or even give up on this relationship.

of course,

You have the right to give up.

But in my opinion, this is irresponsible behavior.

Because when you feel that this relationship is no longer fresh, you choose to give up and look for another one that is more fresh to you.

No matter who you are with, no matter how beautiful she is or how good her figure is, her brilliance will be wiped out by the daily trivialities of life.

When the novelty disappears again, you will fall into a vicious circle.

At this time,
What should we do?
I think,
love someone,

I chose her.

Even if the relationship has entered a dull period, you should experience new things with her, discover new fun in life, and get back the original feeling.

Instead of doing nothing or giving up.

I’m telling you buddy,
Falling in love is a person’s primitive instinct, and loyalty is the choice.

When the novelty wears off, true love begins to emerge!
Having no topics is the beginning of the sublimation of love.

. . . . .

On the barrage.

No topic is the beginning of love sublimation

What the hell!

Enlightenment.

“@Xiaoyao, I understand. Let’s work together to get through this dull period. I will slowly correct my faults. Are you willing?”

“it is good!”

“@Xiaohuizi, baby, let’s spend the quiet period together.”

“Got it, baby.”

“@Nana, I really want to have a long future with you, let’s try again.”

“Uh-huh.”

“@Xue’er, Princess, I found a live broadcast room that can help us understand the current state of our relationship. Can you take a look at it in your busy schedule? I hope you will be well.”

“…”

The stream flows: “I am so good at this, and I have reached a new level.”

. . . . .

“@Military Advisor, do you have any practical tips?”

Raymond Lam: “Share more of your daily life to create new topics and live your life with a sense of ritual… Well, actually just recall what you did when you first got together.

For example, at first when you were crossing the road and waiting for the red light, you couldn’t help but want to send a text message to the other person.

Even if the online taxi still has 30 seconds to arrive, when you see the beautiful sunrise in the sky, you can’t help but take a picture and send it to her.

In fact, many people say they are busy.
How busy can it be?

Isn’t it, brothers? “

. . . . .

On the barrage.

“In 30 seconds, I can not only take photos, but also adjust the settings and think of a copy (dog head).”

“So many things can be done in 30 seconds, how can I have nothing to say, I really just don’t want to reply (crying)”

“I can do a lot of things in the one minute I wait for the red light, so how can I not have time?”

“But I have an iPhone + Mobile, Yan Zi (crying)”

“What do you mean?”

“iphone+mobile=stillness (dog head).”

“It’s true. I also use an iPhone and a mobile phone, and sometimes the messages only come in five minutes ago.”

“Yes, there will be a delay on iPhone. You see the message outside, but it takes a long time to appear in WeChat.”

“30 seconds, my crappy phone can’t even get into the camera (helpless)”

“This isn’t just a missing persons thing, I can only chase after the swallows on foot (crying)”

What the hell!

I’m fucking sad.

you..

poisonous!

Hahahahaha.

“But I have an iPhone and China Unicom, Yan Zi (crying)”

“But I have iPhone + Telecom, Yan Zi (crying)”

“Can’t move, can’t connect, can’t trust…”

have to,
Don’t chase anyone.

Hahahahaha.

(End of this chapter)