“Brother, I am similar to the boy in the story just now. My family is also quite ordinary.

I have a girlfriend, we’ve been together for over a year, but her family still doesn’t know me.

My girlfriend wants me to go to her home with her so that I can face her family.
But I hope she can give me more time. I want to have a better financial situation.
But she just broke up with me, I feel so sad.

Are poor people really not worthy of love? “

A barrage of comments caught Lin Feng’s attention.

Lin Feng took a puff of cigarette, shook his head and said: “How can a poor man dare to enter the prosperous world, how can a clean-handed man dare to miss a beautiful woman?
Buddy,
I understand your sadness and regret.

But sometimes we have to admit that our defeat may not be caused by poverty.

It’s your incurable inferiority complex, your timidity of never taking the initiative, your nervousness of not knowing what to do, and your rigidity in sticking to your principles.”

Boy: “But I just want her to give me more time. Am I wrong in that?”

Raymond Lam asked back: “How much more time is that?
a year?
Two years?

Or five or ten years?

And are you sure you will have money by then?
Let me tell you this.

I think everyone has watched “Demi-Gods and Semi-Devils” when they were young.

Then do you know what is the most unfair thing in Demi-Gods and Semi-Devils?

The goal that Murong Fu pursued all his life was what Duan Yu obtained when he was born.

Ding Chunqiu killed so many people to get the martial arts secret book that Xu Zhu dreamed of getting, and he got it easily.

Jiumozhi wanted to pursue the highest martial arts, but in the end he lost all his skills and became a useless person, while Duan Yu did not want to practice martial arts, but in the end he became a martial arts master.

What is this called?
Same people but different fates.

Some people are born in Rome, while others may never be there in their entire life.

Do you understand?
I am not saying that poor people deserve to be poor all their lives. What I want to say is that if you are given more time, maybe you can succeed, or maybe you can’t.

But so what?
who care?

Anyway, you were a poor boy when she loved you.

Remember this, buddy.

A person can be poor, but his heart cannot be poor.

The girl is not afraid, why are you afraid?
It’s just meeting the parents,
Just charge and it’s over! “

The boy didn’t speak for a long time.

I don’t know if he is thinking or has already left.

Lin Feng took a puff of cigarette and said to the live broadcast room: “This is the common problem that many boys are facing now, that is, they have no money, low self-esteem, no confidence, and dare not fall in love.

But what I want to say is, how good can we be in our 20s?
What results can we achieve?

What is the only thing that can be taken out?
It’s all about attitude.

Although I am poor, I am sincere and I don’t lie.

What job do I do now?
How much do I make per month?
I have nothing to be ashamed of.

My family background is not good, I just need to say it frankly.

It’s just meeting the parents, I will be polite.

I buy what I should buy, and I take what I should take.

Maybe after a while, if you keep working on it, you’ll have a chance.

Of course, at the beginning, the other party’s parents may think that you are not qualified, which is normal.

But maybe after a long period of observation, they found that their daughter was also very determined and the boy was also good, so the two of them might slowly settle down.

After a year or two of dating, the guy’s parents will notice that your income is increasing, and even if your income doesn’t increase, they will still think that the guy is a nice person.
At least he has been coming home for so many years and his attitude has been pretty good, so he might give in.

Bros,
You must remember,
Many people don’t have a lot of money at home, or they are well-off and can afford a house or a garage.
That’s on TikTok.

In reality, it’s not like the average person has a million.

Take my live studio for example, many people’s wives are the result of two people’s persistence for many years.
There is no secret, the main thing is to be thick-skinned and go to other people’s houses every other day.
I didn’t agree at first, but after a while I finally agreed.

Really

Not everyone has a family to support them, so does that mean you can’t get married because you’re poor?

no,
In every marriage, you first express your attitude and then slowly work it out.

Anyway, you are going to meet the other party’s parents, so you should dress neatly and have your hair done neatly.
A better mental outlook.
Just bring some more gifts and it will be polite.

Have some snacks.

Find out in advance. If his father drinks, then buy him some wine.

If you smoke, buy some cigarettes.

Buy something considerate, but don’t buy something expensive.

After all, you have the conditions here, it’s not good to be too pretentious.

Just use what you need frequently, eat what you want and drink what you want.

As time went by, I actually relaxed.
I said not every family has wealth.

He got married only after he had everything ready, including a car, a house and savings.

That’s not the case.

Often it’s just a matter of attitude. You have to be thick-skinned and go to other people’s homes every few days. After a while, the parents will finally give in.

Well, they got married.

Do you understand?

I’m not kidding you.

The reality is not like the one on TikTok where everyone has a million dollars per person. All the conditions are ready, the house is bought, the bride price is ready, and a large amount of cash is kept at home.

No,

In reality, many people are poor.
But it was with this attitude that I married my wife.

I don’t have money, but I have a good attitude.
I can’t say I have no money, but I hate it.

She said her father looked down on me, so I didn’t go.
I won’t even pee towards your house.
Then don’t talk about it.

In reality, many people are poor, but they still go to girls’ homes from time to time.
Licking the face, right?
Every time during festivals, I would bring some things over, and even if they were thrown away, they would still smile.

After much deliberation, he finally married her.

I have said it all. If you don’t believe me, just ask your friends and relatives. It’s all like this.

Not everyone has a family background.

In reality, how many people can really get married relying on their parents?
A lot of it is also achieved through one’s own attitude, bit by bit.

You said you are thin-skinned and have a strong sense of self-esteem.

I tell you,
Asking you to run twice more does not mean that you should bow to her parents.
In fact, the essence is to avoid making things difficult for your wife.

Don’t let your wife be scolded by her parents at home every day.
You want to solve this problem together so as not to make things difficult for your wife.
Do you understand? “

. . . . . .

On the barrage

“Alas, I was young and full of energy. If I had seen these words two years earlier, would I have not lost her? (crying)”

“I’m not bowing to her parents, I just don’t want to make life difficult for my wife. The host’s ideas and actions are refreshing to me. It’s a pity that no one enlightened me in this way at the beginning.”

“In reality, there are only a few people who really rely on their parents to get married. Most of the marriages are slowly worked out by going to the father-in-law’s house. It’s so real. My family is like that.”

“Anyway, you were just a poor boy when she loved you. Oh my god, who knows the destructive power of this sentence? I’m really crying.”

“A person can be poor, but his heart cannot be poor (highly praised)”

. . . . . .

Lin Feng knocked on the table and said, “But I also want to advise all parents.

If your daughter brings home a boy, or if you bring home a girl,

Even if the family conditions are relatively poor,
Old Deng,
I advise you to be clear.

They’re not coming here for you, so don’t try to get ahead of them.

They came because they like your daughter, and they call you uncle and aunt and they bring you food.

If you didn’t have a daughter, or a son, people wouldn’t even glance at you when they passed by on the street.

Don’t be so fucking serious.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“Old Deng, please don’t get so fucking serious. I’m not coming here for you. Hahahaha, I’m dying of laughter.”

“Fuck! Just based on this sentence, you are really my big brother (thumbs-up).”

“Cool! That sounds so cool, hahaha.”

“I searched the internet and found that only my eldest brother would dare to say this (laughing and crying).”

“That’s right. After all, he was once the main player of 1V199 (Doghead).”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: “Really, no kidding, some things are due to family education.
As a parent, you can object.

But they are all juniors, the same age as your son and daughter.

You said that when people arrive, you can cook some food for them, it won’t cost much.

And they came in with gifts, calling me uncle or aunt.
No matter whether this thing succeeds or not, whether you can get through it in the future or not, there is no need to put on a bad face in front of the children.

When we get home, we cook a meal and then have a chat at the table.

It’s understandable that you object.

But you need a tutor.

We say that anyone who comes to our door is a guest.

You can’t look down on others.

I told you, they didn’t come here for you, so there’s nothing to pretend about.

Opposition is opposition,
You said your current job is not very stable. I think you two can reconsider it, or you can work hard at work and wait a few years.
This is all fine, just talk about it nicely.

But there is no need to look down on others and say, “I am your age, so I am this and that.

That means you have no quality and no upbringing.

So I would also like to advise all my brothers that there is nothing wrong in visiting your father-in-law’s house more often. This is your attitude.

And if your father-in-law or your mother-in-law can treat you with courtesy,

No matter what, even if he opposes, no matter what he does, such a family will not have big problems. But the kind of family that attacks you personally, insults your family, insults you and degrades your personality,

be honest,

That thing will probably be more troublesome after marriage.

So you all should be clear about this.”

okay,

This ends this topic.

Next person.

Ding~
“Hey bro.”

Another girl.

Raymond Lam: “Hello sister, tell me.”

Girl: “Brother, I’m 24 years old, and I’m making the most important decision in my life. I’m engaged, and then I found out that my boyfriend cheated on me. That day he was…”

Hey hey hey!
Lin Feng suddenly raised his hand to interrupt, “The dead are the greatest, so let’s not talk about them!”

puff~
Hahahahaha.

The screen is full of laughter.

“It’s better not to mention the dead, this anchor brother is amazing, hahahaha.”

“I have a grave in my heart to bury this widow (dog head).”

“Hahahaha, laugh and get rich.”

“The older generation said that if you can’t forget your ex, just photoshop his photo into black and white. People can’t be resurrected, so burn some incense on the first and fifteenth day of the lunar month (Amitabha).”

You are a ruthless person.

Hahahaha that’s absolutely amazing.

. . . . .

Girl: “But we’re getting engaged soon, why is he doing this to me?”

Lin Feng frowned, muted the girl’s microphone, and said unhappily, “Cry your uncle, I’m also convinced,

Why do you people always think pessimistically when you encounter things?
If you didn’t just get engaged and found out your husband was cheating on you, but you have two children now,
Then you stay at home full-time for a long time and become disconnected from society.
Your husband doesn’t usually give you money, he spends all his money on his mistress.
Then at this time you find out that your husband is cheating on you, what do you do?
At that time, when you came to the line to cry, I could only say, “Oh, oh, I understand you.”

This is all I can do.

But it’s different now,
The current situation is that your grandmother had her head smashed down there, which gave you a little clue before you got married, allowing you to discover that this man was cheating on you.

Shouldn’t this be a good thing to thank our ancestors for blessing us?
Just like many sisters-in-law in my live studio, think about it carefully.

In fact, God has given you many chances, telling you before marriage that this person has cheated, engaged in domestic violence, gambling, and various bad habits.

Well, ignore the hint from heaven,

I’m going to marry this bastard.

I can forgive him, I believe he will change after marriage,
When it really comes to the end, I can’t take it anymore and start to curse the heaven for being speechless. I ask the heaven to distinguish between loyalty and treachery.

I’m telling the truth, if God hears it up there, he’ll definitely strike you to death with a bolt of lightning.

Damn it,
I gave you a hint long ago, but you didn’t listen.

I had to jump in.

Now I curse the heavens for being blind, and my grandmother will use the thunder spell in the underworld to kill you, you son of a bitch.”

Well. . .

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“Grandma will use the thunder spell in the underworld to kill you, you son of a bitch… Hahaha, big brother is really angry.”

“Of course not. The ancestors down there have already given you a hint. If you continue, you will die (grin).”

“If you find problems before marriage, treat them as a happy event (dog head).”

“Yes, we need to set up two tables (covering mouth and laughing).”

“I met my elder brother too late, and I suffered a lot during those years of dating and getting married. If I had someone like my elder brother scolding me, my life might have been different (crying to death).”

Hahahaha, it’s not too late to watch Big Brother now.

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: “To be honest, it was such a blessing for you to discover his cheating before we got engaged.
If you still have any conscience, burn a few more incense sticks for grandma during the New Year and other festivals.

Thank your ancestors for helping you see through this behavior before marriage.

I said, if you are pregnant with your second child now, the baby is still in your belly, and you have no job, and your husband cheats on you at this time, what should I do, brother?
It was like the sky was falling at that time.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“Will our ancestors really bless us in the dark? (curious)”

“@upper, do you know how many ancestors each of us has? Let me put it this way. A hundred years later, your father will stand behind you on your left shoulder, and your mother will stand behind you on your right shoulder. If your father is followed by your grandparents, and your mother is followed by your grandparents, then if we go further back, let’s just wait for 500 years, there will be 524286 people standing behind you (raised eyebrows).”

“No, 524286 people, just to pick on a loser like me? (grin).”

“You are not allowed to say that about yourself (dog head).”

puff~
Hahahahaha.

“Ancestors, please grant me a young woman (please).”

“I don’t want a wife, I want a young woman. May I ask, sir, is your ancestor’s surname Cao? (dog head)”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: “Calm down, calm down, I’ll let you talk.”

As he spoke, Lin Feng turned on the other party’s microphone.

Girl: “Brother, I want to tell you about our situation first. I am 24 years old, and he is one year older than me. We met when we were 16 years old. We…”

stop stop stop!
Without giving the girl a chance to continue, Raymond Lam interrupted, “What?
Are all those hairs of your grandmother’s head gone white?

I just said so much, and you’re going to start by giving me a field?
I am 24 years old this year, he is one year older than me, we met when we were 16, we have been through a lot together…

What?

Everything that happened yesterday, such as yesterday’s death, is already in the past.

Stop talking, okay?
Can we stop expanding into the realm of pure love?
What’s up?
You have to let me sing you the whole song of Xuan Ni. “

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“I’ll play you the whole Xuan Ni song again, hahahaha, you’ll make a fortune by laughing.”

“As the sound of drowning sounded, pure love appeared and the field unfolded ~ (dog head)”

“Big brother really gave me a wake-up call. If the girl hadn’t been enlightened by big brother about this field, she wouldn’t have realized it at all (covering her face and laughing).”

“He fell in love in seconds when we were in the purest love year. I didn’t say anything, but he still thought I looked like a dead fish (grin).”

“I didn’t even have time to prepare for the performance, and it was over and I was still despised (crying to death).”

“Big sister, what a hard life you’ve lived in the past (dog head).”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: “Don’t dwell on the past, now the result is in front of you.
It’s the boy you met when you were 16 years old. What did you think you got in return for spending seven or eight years together?
The result you get is right before your eyes.

He cheated.

Neither is a dog.

Don’t tell me you are 16 years old or how long have you been together.

That’s it.
If I were a screenwriter, I could make a movie for you.

If I were a therapist, I could listen.

But unfortunately,

I am a military advisor.
I don’t want to hear your crap.

If you ask me that again, I can only tell you that it can be changed, so you can get engaged without worry.

If you say so, then I really want to comfort you.
Don’t worry, girl.
He can change it.

Why can’t this be changed?

You are still young, in your 20s, right?
Everyone makes mistakes at this age, it’s normal.

Just be older.

Just get engaged.

Is this what you wanted to hear?

So I said, are you happier now? “

There was silence for a long time.

Lin Feng shook his head and said, “If you had continued to refute me just now, I would have kicked you out.

But you were quiet and didn’t say anything.

I will say one last word to you just for your grandmother’s sake.

As for whether to listen or not, it’s up to you.”

Saying,

Lin Feng signaled to Shui Ge to dim the lights in the room and then play some soothing music.

He said softly: “Sister, do as I say now.
Close your eyes first.

You find yourself already a mother of two children. You stay at home full-time, taking care of the daily necessities of life, and gradually lose yourself.

No makeup, no new clothes.

Family relationships are also a mess.

Your mother-in-law looks down on you and your father-in-law calls you a yellow-faced woman.

At this time, her husband cheated again and even openly brought his mistress into the master bedroom.

You keep crying and complaining about your bad fate.

You keep praying to God to give you a chance to start over.

At this time,

You open your eyes and find yourself back to the day before your engagement… “(End of this chapter)