I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network
Chapter 124 Your 19 years old is different from my 19 years old
Chapter 124 Your 19th birthday is different from my 19th birthday
Lin Feng: “Are you studying now, or have you already started working?”
“She is doing an internship, and I have been working in society for two years.”
Lin Feng nodded: “So is there any problem?”
“Military Advisor, there is no problem with our relationship itself, including our views on love and other things. There is nothing wrong with these. It’s just that the family issue is a bit bigger.
In fact, the main problem should be on my side, because my parents’ business has encountered major changes in recent years.”
Lin Feng: “Family downfall?”
“You could say that, her parents have always been quite strict with her.”
Understood.
Raymond Lam: “The girl’s parents know that your family has fallen on hard times, and they are worried that the girl’s future will be very uncertain if she stays with you.”
“Yes, that’s right.”
Lin Feng knocked on the small blackboard.
Come on buddy,
Listen to what I tell you.
First of all, your early love in middle school, also known as the heartbeat in early adolescence,
This feeling can last for five years.
It means that the girl is really right for you.
why?
Actually, I told my brothers in the live studio yesterday,
Because at this age, the logic of children thinking about feelings must be a kind of possessiveness from a self-perspective.
It has no planning awareness for emotions.
Easy to change your mind,
It is easy to abandon the old one when you meet a new one.
This is how children’s emotions are.
And it is not easy for you to persist for 5 years!
So I personally think your relationship is very good.
They are also people who deserve to work hard for each other.
This is the first point.
. . . . .
On the barrage.
Xiao Wan: “Can anyone really make it to the end of their crush in junior high school?”
Frappuccino: “From sixth grade to senior year of high school, we were in the same school. Later, our parents knew about it and they disapproved. Then she moved away. The night before the move, she secretly ran out and put a note in my room window: I’m moving away. Goodbye, my little prince. (crying)”
Gouzi: “Oh my god!”
Broken!
Little Fairy: “My parents started dating in junior high school.”
Stranger: “So you got married in the end?”
Little fairy: ???
Hahahahaha.
. . . . . .
Raymond Lam: “Second point, you are 19 years old now, and the other person is also 19 years old.
It’s too early for you to think about the future at your age.
You said that your family has fallen on hard times and you were worried that it might affect the relationship between you two.
In the final analysis,
It’s still a matter of money.
The other party’s parents don’t trust your ability to support a family.
But you are only 19, you have plenty of time to work hard for it.
You go save money.
When you have saved up enough money and are able to marry someone, all your family problems will be solved.”
over!
The boy was silent for a while and said, “Military Advisor, the problem now is that her family wants her to separate from me.”
Lin Feng smiled and said, “Brother, her parents are her parents. You still need to express this to your girlfriend. It’s useless for you to communicate with her family.
Because when you have nothing, no matter how well you negotiate with the other family, it will be ineffective communication.
What you need to do most now is to keep your girlfriend stable.
You tell her that we are still young and if we want to get married, it will take another two years.
You can see how hard I have worked in the past two years.
After two years,
If I really can’t do it, you can abandon me then.
But you can’t not give me a chance to try.”
. . . . .
On the barrage.
“If I really can’t do it”, “You abandon me again”, “But you can’t not give me a chance to try hard”
my God!
Burst into tears!!
“But the fact is, in this era, hard work is just a matter of luck. It doesn’t mean that there will be results if you work hard.”
“It’s true. After working so hard for so long, I still failed. I don’t regret it, but I’m sad, very sad.”
. . . . .
Boy: “Military Advisor, but I think it’s time for us to talk about marriage.”
Lin Feng: “Not yet, buddy. You are only 19 now, not yet of legal age. You can’t get a marriage certificate even if you go to the Civil Affairs Bureau. Be obedient and work hard in the next few years.” The boy: “Military Advisor, I understand what you mean. In fact, I have worked hard in this regard, and my savings are relatively high among my peers. I now have 20 yuan in my hand.”
???
Lin Feng: “How much?”
“20w.”
Lin Feng was surprised: “Fuck, you are so awesome, buddy, you have 19 yuan at the age of 20? When I was 19, I was still trying to cheat my mom for living expenses.”
. . . .
On the barrage.
“19 Years Old” “Deposit 20”
What the hell!
Can’t smile at all!
“25 years old, 8000 in savings, isn’t that embarrassing (laughing and crying)”
“I owe 26 yuan to Huabei at the age of 2100.”
“29 years old, 30 yuan in debt.”
. . . .
“A 24-year-old girl has 200 million in savings.”
“Do you still want a son, Mom?”
???
Hahahahaha.
. . . . .
Boy: “That’s why I’m worried. I’m afraid her family will have an impact on our relationship.”
Raymond Lam: “Brother, be more confident. You can save 19 yuan at the age of 20, how awesome.”
Boy: “But she is avoiding me now. She expressed that she really wants to be with me, but due to family pressure, she chooses to escape.”
Lin Feng knocked on the small blackboard again.
Dude,
It is obvious that the opponent’s backbone is not very strong now!
We really can’t just sit there and wait for death.
We have to take the initiative.
You are like this,
Take a screenshot of your deposit and go directly to the other party’s parents.
Now is the time for us to show our resolve.”
Boy: “Okay, military advisor, but I still want to know something from you. There are some details I don’t know. Do you have any suggestions for meeting his parents, or anything I need to pay attention to?”
Lin Feng quickly wrote two words on the small blackboard:
“face.”
The boy seemed to understand but not quite.
Lin Feng: “What it means is that you have to give enough face to the other party’s parents. You have to let her parents know that it is a very honorable thing for her daughter to find you.
How to reflect it?
Don’t go empty-handed, buddy.
Boy: “Oh, I understand this, don’t worry, military advisor.”
Lin Feng smiled and said, “Bring something good to their parents, don’t bring any damn local specialties.”
Boy: “No, no, it’s definitely maxed out.”
Lin Feng was amused by the little kid.
“Full?”
“Dude, at your age, you need a Will-O-W-Fire to pull the trigger.”
what?
Hahahaha.
. . . .
“Okay, go do it.”
“Thank you, military advisor.”
Hang up the mic,
Lin Feng sighed to the live broadcast room:
You can save 19 yuan at the age of 20.
Have the awareness and ability to save money,
Really awesome.
I originally thought that his 19 years old was about the same as our 19 years old.
Bros,
Do you know why I just said to let him talk to his girlfriend first and stabilize his girlfriend?
That’s because I think that at this age, everyone is a child, and there’s no point in communicating with their parents.
As a result, he said he had 19 yuan at the age of 20.
What the hell!
Then it would be useful for you to contact the other party’s parents now.
Lin Feng was sighing when he suddenly saw a comment.
“Military Advisor, I saved 25 when I was 1000, and I feel like my life has lost its fun.”
Lin Feng smiled.
Not bro,
You have 1000 what?
Happy beans!
(End of this chapter)