No longer answering my mother,

Lin Feng shouted to himself: “Child, come here.”

Boy: “Here I come, brother.”

Lin Feng: “Brother, remember, write an essay with mom at home tonight, just write about how that female classmate has messed with you over the years, and think of all the details.

Tomorrow your mother takes you to school and you say all this out loud. I’ll tell you, this is called arguing your case.

You must learn this skill and express yourself loudly to your teacher.

I didn’t kick her for no reason. There was a reason. She had been bullying me since the third grade and even joined other classmates to isolate me.

You have to write down every detail.

Remember, details are the most touching.

For example, one time a guy named Xiao Ming wanted to play with me, but she pulled him away, and they have been isolating me together for years.

And then there are other things like this and that…

Take a small notebook and write it down.
Express it loudly when you get to school tomorrow, do you hear me?

Don’t be afraid of the teacher.

The teacher is neither a god nor an emperor.

Even if I meet the emperor, I am not afraid.

Did you hear that? Express out loud how much hurt she has done to you over the years.

I’ll tell you all at once tomorrow.

At that moment, when she smiled at me at the toilet door, I suddenly thought of the hurt she had caused me over the years.

I did hit her, I kicked her, you can’t see anything else from the surveillance, but did I kick you for no reason?
You have been bullying me for years and I can’t stand it anymore. I beat you up to protect myself. What’s wrong with that?
My brother asks you,

Do you dare to do it tomorrow?”

The boy said loudly: “Dare!”

Lin Feng gave a thumbs up: “Well done, brother, you are a little warrior.

In addition, if you can improve your academic performance, you will be even more amazing.

Why? Think about it, she can bully you and unite others to isolate you, so why should others listen to her?

It’s because she is the class monitor.

What happened to the squad leader?
I learn to crush you.

I have learned more than you,

Can you still be the monitor?
Can you understand, brother?
You bullied me for so many years, and I endured it.

But you’ve really gone too far and you won’t let me go, and I can’t stand it anymore.

Not only will I kick you today, but I will also surpass you in study tomorrow and slap you in the face.

Do you know what this is called, brother?

This is called the wind and snow pressing on me for two or three years, and I laugh at the wind and snow being as light as cotton.

The young man has lofty ambitions, and one day he will reach the top and laugh at the sky.

So what if my classmates isolate me? So what if my teacher doesn’t like me?

Even if no one helps me achieve my ambitions, I will still walk through the snow to the top of the mountain.

If it is not my destiny, I can still climb Kunlun alone.

Don’t you all like to bully me?
it is good,
I will become someone you can’t afford to bully.

Can you do it, brother?”

The boy shouted excitedly: “I can!!”

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“Wow, this made me, a big guy from Northeast China, burst into tears.”

“You all bully me, so I will become someone you can’t bully (thumbs-up).”

“My classmates isolated me, and the teachers didn’t like me, so what? No one helped me to achieve my ambitions. I climbed the snow to the top of the mountain. If someone had said that to me, I wouldn’t have dropped out of school so early (burst into tears).”

“The one you look down on the most has to be the most competitive. The chicken soup that big brother cooks is really delicious (covering mouth and crying).”

. . . . . .

“Okay, kid, go inside and get a little notebook to write. I have something to say to you.”

“Okay brother.”

With the sound of a door closing, the boy left the room. Lin Feng said to the camera calmly: “What do you say now?”

The woman sighed and said, “My problem.”

Raymond Lam: “What’s your problem?”

The woman said: “I didn’t ask my son the reason in depth, I just wanted to solve this problem.”

Lin Feng waved his hands and said, “This is not the essence. The essence is that you look down on your son from the bottom of your heart. You naturally think your son is very bad.

Why do you do this, sister-in-law?
If you don’t even believe that your son is a good boy, who in this world will believe him?

His classmates isolated him.
The teacher reported him.
Even his own mother didn’t believe him.

Do you know how much pressure this child is under?
Even the purpose of your connecting with me today is just to let me give you some advice on how to deal with him.

be honest,

If I believed your lies today, I would stand against him and teach you how to deal with him.

Is this child still alive?

A primary school student, opening his eyes and looking around, is isolated, bullied, accused and scolded.

Sister-in-law,
I might be the last straw that breaks the camel’s back.

The headline of tomorrow’s city news may be your son.

Can you understand what I am saying? “

Ahh …

The woman burst into tears.

Lin Feng shook his head and said, “Really, you should reflect on this.

I just met your son by chance, why would I believe him?

I’m not his father, I’m just a host on the cloud.

Despite the malicious slander from you, the closest person to him, I want to give your son a chance to express himself.

But as a mother, you choose to blindly believe what outsiders such as classmates and teachers say, and not listen to what your son says.

Don’t you think something is wrong?”

Woman: “Wow, I’m so stupid.”

Lin Feng shook his head: “It’s useless to confess to me, you need to apologize to your son and go to school tomorrow to prove your change with practical actions.

I’m not trying to scare you, but you don’t have much time left, two years at most.

Because your son is in the fourth grade now and will enter junior high school in two years.

Everyone knows this about junior high school students.

It doesn’t mean that they will necessarily be rebellious or something, it’s just that children of this age have already formed their own personality.

He is no longer as clingy as he was when he was a child, nor does he crave his parents’ trust as much.

If you don’t trust me, I will choose to escape and stay away from you.

So you will see that many junior high school students are bullied most frequently, and they will not go home and tell their parents when they are bullied.

Because you didn’t trust him in the past, he is disappointed.

He would rather endure the bullying silently at school every day than go home and tell others about it.

But his resentment towards his parents will grow deeper and deeper.

So it’s only in these two years that your son is willing to give you a chance and you can still be close.

But in fact, he is now unwilling to communicate with you too much.
This is already a very dangerous signal.

If you cannot give him emotional support and protection at this time, he will be completely disappointed in you.
At that point, your relationship will never be the same again.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage

“My child just didn’t tell me when she was bullied, because she said it would be useless to tell me (crying).”

“I am that kind of mother. I always tried to keep things quiet, which led to my daughter dropping out of school in the second year of junior high school. I kept scolding her at the time. When I heard what my eldest brother said just now, I suddenly felt that I was so stupid (crying to death).”

“The main reason is that the children feel that no one is backing them up…”

“I have fallen into all the traps and have wronged my son. Looking back, I was bullied as a child and this happened to me. My son is still like this now. It’s all my fault for being useless.”

“Alas, we applied the education we received when we were young to our children without any changes. As a result, after the children became sick, we realized that we were actually sick a long time ago…”

In the phrase.

Thumbs up! (End of this chapter)