When I was young, I didn’t know how good my younger brother was, and I mistakenly treated the old man as a treasure.

younger brother,

Naked streaking is OK.

But you can’t wear white socks.

Cough~
All right, all right.

My brother can’t hold it in any longer if you continue talking.

Next one.

Ding~
“Hey bro.”

It’s a girl.

Lin Feng: “Hello, are you having any problems?”

Girl: “Brother, I want to talk about an emotional and realistic issue. My ex-boyfriend and I broke up last year.
We met at work because we were both in e-commerce.
After we met, we got together, and after we got together, we started a business together.

When we started our business, we worked very well together and, to be honest, we made money.

Last year we said we were planning to get married. We had thought that if we were not busy last year, we would have gotten engaged last year, and we would have gotten married this year at the latest.
But we broke up last year.”

Lin Feng: “Why?”

Girl: “The breakup was not about work or relationship issues, it was mainly because his family was complicated.
Because we are from different provinces, if I marry there, it would be considered marrying far away.
But his father died early, and I felt that he was too biased towards his family. He would act very strong over any small issue. “

Raymond Lam: “His father passed away early, so he is more inclined towards his family, and I think there is nothing wrong with that.

If his father died early and this person doesn’t even care about his family, and only cares about you, then this boy has no sense of responsibility and is an ungrateful person.

Also, just talk about your problems, don’t talk about other people’s family members.

What a small problem, how did he show his strength, please be more specific. “

Girl: “Let’s talk about the time that led to our final breakup.

The situation at that time was that he wanted to buy a cat for his family, and I objected to it, and he said that his family was his bottom line, and then I broke up with him. “

Lin Feng waved his hand and said, “Don’t feel wronged.
Let me say something. Many people always talk about the other party’s problems when they come up to discuss a problem. But if you think about it carefully, you are actually quite strong.

If someone buys a cat for their family, why would you object?

You said that the other person is strong and cares a lot about the family. Aren’t you also strong?

If you don’t say there is something wrong, then you will say there is something wrong with you. Most of the time, when you talk about other people’s faults, you also have them in you.

If one of the two people is submissive, then neither of them would have quarreled.”

Girl: “Then let me tell you about buying a cat. I bought the cat for his nephew.
Because I have a cat, his nephew likes it very much, so his sister-in-law asked someone else for a rural cat,

However, his sister-in-law was more frugal and was reluctant to feed the cats. She was so reluctant that she even bought a bowl.
Then one day, his shop was not closed and he was not watching over it, so the kitten ran out and was crushed to death.
His nephew cried very sadly, so he immediately said he would buy another cat for his nephew.”

Lin Feng: “No, from what I heard there is no problem. The kitten died, and he saw his nephew crying so sadly, so he wanted to buy another cat for his nephew. What’s the problem? Why are you objecting?”

The girl explained: “I disagree because I think it’s irresponsible for his sister-in-law to keep a cat. A cat is also a life, so I object.”

Lin Feng said speechlessly: “You don’t have to object, because if you don’t pick up these rural cats, a lot of them will freeze to death outside in winter.

If you really have a charitable heart and are responsible for life, you should sterilize them all.
It’s no exaggeration. Our community gave birth to a litter of cats two days ago. If you don’t pick up these rural cats, I’ll say something unpleasant. In the winter, a lot of them will freeze to death, and a lot of them will be crushed to death on the road.

Your sister-in-law picked it up and took it home. At least it felt warm here.

Besides, rural cats are like this, they will run outside if they are not taken care of. Not all of them are pet cats.

The nephew is crying, and as an uncle I want to buy him another one, so what?

I said, if you don’t say it, then you have something. In a sense, you also represent a kind of strength.”

Girl: “No, no, no, actually I still didn’t express one thing very clearly.
It’s not that I disagree with buying a cat, but his sister-in-law is reluctant to spend money on raising a cat.”

Raymond Lam: “Okay, not every cat needs to eat cat food.
If I remember correctly, when I was in primary school, there was an old lady living outside the school. Her cat ate leftovers.

I remember that cat was called a Persian cat. It didn’t eat cat food, but it was quite beautiful even without being raised.

Including the fruit seller at the entrance of our community, there are a bunch of cats at that fruit stall. They just eat the leftovers when they eat, and those that don’t eat are quite fat.

And just because someone else failed to raise the animal well doesn’t mean that he can’t raise it better the second time just because he failed to raise it the first time.

After all, it was an accident, and it might be possible for the sister-in-law to go around and try to improve it.

To put it bluntly, you two are not married yet. If someone buys something for his nephew, is it your turn to object?”

Girl: “That’s not what I meant. I meant…”

Shut up you.

Lin Feng raised his hand and interrupted, “Do you want to convince me too?
I won’t cater to you.

Based on what you just said, I can almost be sure of two possibilities.

First, you are an extreme cat lover, which can explain your behavior and words.

However, I personally prefer the second possibility, that you don’t care about the cat at all, but you have a problem with the sister-in-law.”

After Lin Feng finished speaking, the other side fell silent.

After a while, the girl said, “Okay, I admit that I have a problem with his sister-in-law.”

Look.

I knew it was so.

Lin Feng sneered and shrugged.

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“Brother has a very quick judgment and found the essence right away (thumbs up).”

“I’m still stupidly thinking about cats (laughing and crying).”

“He’s really amazing. I could see other things, but I didn’t see it at first because she had a problem with her sister-in-law.”

“I woke up after hearing that.”

. . . . . .

Girl: “But I mentioned the idea of ​​raising a cat and objected to it. He got angry and said that my family is my bottom line.

I also said later that if you insist on buying this cat, I won’t say anything.
But I think you said this and got angry just because I objected to buying a cat. “

Raymond Lam: “Why can’t he be angry?
My family is my bottom line, there is nothing wrong with that, because it was you who raised the issue and it was you who initiated it.

You made the other person angry, and then you made a big deal out of the issue, as if he shouldn’t be angry.

I said, you have all the same problems that you talk about other people.

younger sister,

People can’t just demand things from others without demanding things from themselves.

Are you vulnerable?
You are not weak.

Although your boyfriend really has low emotional intelligence, he just bought a cat secretly, but he has to make a big deal out of it and say that family is the bottom line.

He does have a problem with this.

But then again,
Family is my bottom line, and there is nothing wrong with this sentence itself.

If you don’t take it too seriously, then it’s fine. I’ll buy it.

This matter is over.

But you also have to take it seriously and be serious about it.

It’s just like you just came up and kept making excuses, but in the final analysis you just have a grudge against someone’s sister-in-law.

You clearly have the answer in your heart, yet you still argue with me online for a long time.
I said that the rural cat doesn’t need to be so detailed, and people can modify it later.

I accepted all the reasons you threw out.
You can argue with me on one question for a long time.

why?
Because most of the time you need others to cater to you.

It’s like you have to always win over boys in life. You may not be a bad person, but it’s hard to get along with them. “

The girl was silent for a while and said, “I still want to explain why I had such a strong reaction to my family about my bottom line.

Because we are not from the same province, and their family couldn’t help us with anything when we were planning to get married, such as buying a car or a house, or even a dowry.

It all depends on ourselves.

But I don’t mind these things. I said as long as you treat me well, I am willing to endure hardships with you, I… “

Before he could finish his words, he was interrupted by Lin Feng again: “Okay, stop talking.

If I say anything more, I will start to curse. Why should I suffer with him?
I was convinced too.

I don’t know what’s wrong with this society, but many young people are in love and say “I will rent a house with you when you have no money”.
It’s like when you graduate on your own, you don’t have to rent a house.

I love you, so I always feel indebted.

So I would say to you, I’m sorry for not being able to give you a good life and for making you suffer with me.

But you can’t really take it seriously.

Putting aside those young millionaires on TikTok, in reality very few people have a safety net at home.

How does it mean I have to rent a house with others and suffer with them?
It was originally created by two people together.

If you really think it’s hard to accompany him, then now that you’ve just broken up, can’t you just find someone who has a car and a house?

The fact is, your conditions are there, and you have to start from the beginning to the end if you want to do it yourself.

Why do young people nowadays love each other passionately when they are in love, but act like enemies when they break up?

To put it bluntly, it’s the selfishness of human nature.

A person can endure poverty, but two people cannot, because they will not be able to help but blame each other for their poverty.

A person can endure hardship, but two people cannot, because they will feel that their hardship is caused by the other person.

Well, that’s it, we’ve split up, it’s what you wanted, you don’t have to suffer with him anymore.”

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

“One person can suffer, but two people can’t, because they will feel that their suffering is caused by the other person…”

“It points out the essence of human nature, which is very enlightening. (Strong)”

“One person can eat at a buffet, but two people can’t, because they will slander each other with what they have taken (sunglasses)”

“You can play games alone, but not with two people, because you will be tempted to blame your own bad performance on the other person (dog head).”

Fuck you.

Hahahahaha.

“When one person accompanies another to suffer, it is essentially because they themselves are incapable of not suffering, but after being together they shift the responsibility onto their partner and expect the other to regard it as a favor (grin).”

That is nice!

“I love you, so I always feel guilty (crying to death).”

“Big Brother’s underlying logic is applicable everywhere. His logic is that two people in a relationship must be equal and must be a two-way relationship.”

“It’s my first time drinking duck soup, and I’m still a little uncomfortable (crying).”

“If you drink too much chicken soup, you can have a cup of duck soup (dog head) occasionally”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . . .

Lin Feng: “Many people, I have said this before, there are also many such people in my live broadcast room, who say every day that they will accompany others through hardships and accompany them.

Not only girls, but both boys and girls have such people.

But if you think about it carefully, your situation doesn’t mean you should suffer with others.

If you don’t have the conditions, won’t you have to live in a rental house anyway?

How come two people living together means living in a rented house with him?

What?

If you leave him, you will live in a villa and drive a BMW?

Boys have it, too.

Didn’t a boy in my previous room say that he gave up many of his hobbies?

For my girlfriend, for my work.

I’m telling you that you don’t have the conditions. If you start working, you have to give up all your hobbies.

Do you still want to go fishing every day?

You’re not the fucking boss.

You are in this condition, so of course you have to give up. Then why do you have to give up your hobbies for your girlfriend just to be with her?

Men and women are the same, they are all inexplicable.

What do you mean we both have to start from scratch? In most cases, we both come from ordinary families.

He doesn’t have it at home, and you don’t have it at home either.

That means you have to rely on yourself.

That doesn’t mean you are suffering with someone, it just means you have a companion on the road of suffering, and you walk together.”

. . . . .

On the barrage.

“The right answer is to walk together on the road of hardship (thumbs-up).”

“I make 15k after tax, and she makes less than 4k after tax. She said she’s going through the hard times with me (smile).”

“Of course she does. She works hard every month to help you spend money (dog head).”

puff~
Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: “My nephew was crying so sadly. How big of a deal is it for him to buy a kitten for his nephew? May I ask,

It is obvious that you are very strong, but you still say that others are strong.

I was convinced too.

Bros,
I always think that pets are just pets, they are there to entertain us. As long as you say you have done your best, then there is nothing I can do if something unexpected happens.

If you didn’t take good care of it this time, you might take better care of it next time.
Don’t be fooled by those cat lovers who are on the Internet every day, with a righteous look on their faces.

I would like to ask, who hasn’t killed small animals when they were young, such as kittens, puppies, ducklings, etc.?

Then aren’t there enough people being killed by cars?
Who can raise a child right after birth?

How old is his nephew?

There is a rural cat in that house. To be honest, it is basically free-range.

Because you can’t lock it up at home, it always wants to run outside, and if something unexpected happens during the running process, there is really nothing you can do.

So just don’t abuse it.

If you exaggerate everything, there will be nothing to talk about.

You are like my mother bought me a few goldfish when I was a child and kept them in a glass jar.

I was afraid they would be hungry at night, so I thought I could just pour some feed for them.

I poured the whole bag in.

But when I looked at it the next day, I found that they were all stuffed to death.

If it were you, I would be in big trouble. I would have abused small animals and you would directly deprive me of the right to keep the goldfish for life.

But may I ask, do you think I was thinking this way back then?

Definitely not.

I have good intentions,
I saw the little goldfish always sticking its head out of the water with its mouth opening and closing.

Now I know it was due to lack of oxygen, but I didn’t understand it at the time.

Seeing its mouth opening and closing, I thought it was hungry.

Every time I opened its mouth, I would throw one in.
As soon as my mouth opened, I threw one in.

Later I watched for a long time, why were they still not full?
I thought it was too pitiful, so I just let them have a buffet, so I poured all the feed in the bag and let them eat whatever they wanted.

The next day, everything floated up.
My little goldfish.

I cried the whole fucking day.

Do you think I did it on purpose?” (End of this chapter)