Chapter 290 Your indecision cooperates with my wandering

“@Military Advisor, what should a girl do if she is single?”

Raymond Lam: “Have you noticed a phenomenon that if a girl is single, most of the girls she is particularly close to are also single.
So this leads to a situation where there are few people in a group and there are many people who are few and far between.

Then you have to take some measures and use some tricks at this time.

I suggest that we hold a small meeting as soon as possible, select a representative, and focus on training him for a period of time.

Then let her go fishing.

If successful, bring back the experience and technology to popularize it.
Gradually, friends introduced friends to each other, and partners introduced partners to each other, and everyone found their way into the single life.

So this is a person going out first and then bringing in.

Those who found their singleness first will help those who found their singleness later, and slowly together they will achieve the great goal of finding their singleness together.

What else can we do?
Are they going to continue to be solitary in groups like this?

That’s not a solution either.

Sometimes you feel hungry, right?
Isn’t that what good friends should be used for at critical moments?

So don’t waste time, hold a meeting and elect a representative.

Take action now and immediately!”

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“Those who have found their way out of singlehood first will help those who have found their way out of singlehood later, and together we will slowly achieve this great goal of finding our way out of singlehood together…”

“No, brother, you want a big rural reform (grin)”

“Ah? Why does it sound so familiar? I must have memorized it before (covering my face).”

“Bring in, go out, and implement the area-based system to achieve a comprehensive elimination of singles (dog heads).”

“Hahahaha, this is the route!”

“But why do all my friends have partners, but I don’t (crying).”

“Ask them right now, why don’t you share your experience? Why don’t you help the poor?”

My job is poverty alleviation!
Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: “Brothers, don’t always think of taking shortcuts, just stay in my live studio and watch for a night, and you will understand everything.

What other skills do you need?

okay,

Next one.

Ding~
“Hello, Military Advisor!”

It’s a girl.

Raymond Lam: “Hello sister, what’s the problem?”

Girl: “I’ve been dating a boyfriend for more than half a year, but none of my girlfriends like him. Should I break up?”

Lin Feng smiled: “I don’t know whether you should break up if your best friend doesn’t like him, I only know that if your best friend likes him, you should break up.”

? ?
The girl was puzzled.

Lin Feng: “Can’t we wait for the three of us?”

Well. . .

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“Can’t we just wait for the three of us? Hahaha.”

“When the military advisor said the first sentence, my brain went into a state of panic (laughing to death).”

“Me too, my bestie doesn’t like to break up, and if she does, she wants to break up even more. It’s ridiculous, hahahaha.”

“Then the question is, if your best friend doesn’t like your parents, should she cut off ties with them (dog head)?”

“I will definitely cut off all ties with you. I won’t wear anything (sunglasses) that my bestie doesn’t like.”

“So..is this why you like to call your boyfriend dad (raised eyebrows).”

I’m tilted,

The loop is closed!
Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: “Just kidding, sister. What I want to say is that it’s too difficult to be your boyfriend. Not only do you have to like him, but your friends around you have to like him too. Then he’s not RMB.”

The girl was silent for a moment and said, “Their starting point may indeed be a little more realistic.”

Lin Feng: “Then they would introduce you to a good one, or find you a reliable one, but there is none, right?

They oppose it every fucking day, as if they oppose anyone living with you.

Then you can just stay single and go with them.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“So before you start a relationship, you must think clearly whether it is you who is talking to him or your friend?”

“My ex’s bestie is like this, trying to sow discord between us every day (so disgusting).”

“If a man dares to say that his buddy’s girlfriend is not good, he will be beaten to the ground.”

Hahahaha so true.

“Best friend: I hope you live a good life, but not better than me.”

“It’s very realistic. I am happier hoping that others will suffer misfortune than hoping that I will get rich myself.”

“Is that a best friend? That’s a tortoise friend.”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Girl: “They all said that, so I thought I might have been influenced.”

Lin Feng knocked on the blackboard and said, “Sister, don’t talk about these things. If you are shaken by just two words from others, your love is not firm in essence.

Rather than saying that others have shaken your ideas, it is better to say that others have verified your views on them.

Here’s a line from a song: Your indecision matches my wanderings.

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

I knock!

One word awakens the dreamer!
“You thought it was someone else who swayed her mind, but in fact, her love was not firm to begin with (crying to death).”

“People who can understand this line of lyrics are still bleeding from the gauze, right? (dog head)”

“It wasn’t bandaged at all, so why bother going forward with the injury? (Sunglasses)”

“Without the ups and downs, how can we know who will remain consistent?”

well said!
Lin Feng: “Sister, if you consider the reality, for example, his financial situation is not good enough, and you think it is impossible for me to spend the rest of my life with you,

Then I’ll explain it to you directly and then say good bay.

Adults can break up.

But don’t say my best friend doesn’t like you. Everyone around me opposes you. Who is your best friend? It’s useless for her to oppose you.

Don’t you have any sense of autonomy at your age?”

The girl was silent for a while and then said, “In fact, I was very determined at the beginning, but I wavered later because during the process of getting along with him, I felt that it was his personality and attitude…”

Lin Feng: “Stop it, the two you mentioned are the most fake.

Personality?

Wasn’t he like this when you first got together?
That’s just his personality!
Why can’t I accept it now when I used to love you so much?

To put it bluntly, the novelty has worn off and we have to start weighing the pros and cons.

As for attitude,

It is even more of a fantasy word!

When I love you, it is called complementarity; when I don’t love you, it is called incompatibility.

Don’t you find it ridiculous?”

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“Attitude is even more of a fantasy word.. Hahaha, this anchor’s words are so funny.”

“It’s not only humorous, it also makes sense.”

“Really, when I love you, it’s called complementarity, and when I don’t love you, it’s called incompatibility. It’s perfect! (Thumbs up).”

“With just this one sentence, this anchor has 10w+. I’m not jealous at all.”

“He really has something!”

. . . . .

Girl: “Actually, we’ve broken up for two days now, and I didn’t say anything about pestering him.”

Lin Feng: “That’s great, since we’ve already broken up, don’t provoke them.

To put it harshly,

How many good people are there around you?
They always criticize others for this or that, and they think they are good people.

Now they say you broke up with them.

Then if you get married and they say your husband is not good, will you also divorce him?”

Girl: “But when they say it, it feels like they are standing in my shoes and thinking about me.”

Lin Feng laughed angrily: “Why should I consider you, sister?

If I really cared about you, I shouldn’t have said that.

What is a friend?

We eat and drink together occasionally. If you are happy, I am happy for you. If you are sad, I comfort you.

Only provide emotional value and less advice.

This is what a true friend is.

The kind of person who wants to say something about everything he sees and give advice on everything he hears is essentially not standing on your side.

We say that interfering in other people’s lives is itself a form of disrespect.

And are their outputs really all for your own good?
Not necessarily.

Is it possible that many people simply have no sense of boundaries?

Or is she just a foul-mouthed person who likes to gossip about others behind their backs?

Or maybe the bad things she says are just because there are some problems with your boyfriend that she doesn’t like?
Or maybe she is simply jealous of you and doesn’t want you to live a good life?

Sister, have you ever thought about this?”

Girl: “Maybe I just can’t think clearly enough.”

Lin Feng nodded: “You are indeed not clear. In the past few years, we have always emphasized that families should be democratic and children should be free.

It is said that parents cannot control their children and that children should have their own thoughts and personalities.

It’s only been a few years since I got rid of my parents, and I’m already being controlled by my best friend again.

I am convinced too!
What’s up?
Can’t girls have their own sense of autonomy? Do you have to find someone to control you?

If you’re going to find one, find a better one.

When it comes to best friends, does it mean that they are more knowledgeable than you, have deeper understanding than you, or have richer emotional experiences than you?
Is she happy herself?

Does her boyfriend love her?
Does she love her boyfriend?
If she herself does not understand what love is, what tolerance is, and what two-way running is,

In her shallow understanding, she believes that girls should be loved and pampered unconditionally by boys.

Then tell me, are all her suggestions of any reference value?

never mind,

Don’t talk about love anymore.

Don’t even mention whether your girlfriends understand this thing, you might even have trouble understanding it.

Don’t talk about love,
Let’s talk about reality.

Listen to your parents. Even if you make the wrong choice, your parents can still support you, or at least provide you with financial support.

Can your bestie do it?
Ask them, I listened to you and broke up. If I never meet someone better in the future, can you support me?

See how they answer you?”

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

What the hell!

“Every word this anchor says is crystal clear!”

“Do my best friend know what love is? Do you know what tolerance is? Do you know what it means to run towards each other?… Holy shit! These three questions just blew my mind (stunned).”

“What this means is that no matter whether your best friend has good intentions or not, if she is not someone who understands love, then her advice is of no reference value!”

“It’s an angle I’ve never thought about (shock).”

“This is so advanced thinking! (Awesome)”

“Back off! Everyone, back off! Let my girlfriend see first!!”

“This is the positive energy of society (thumbs-up).”

“All men, please stand up and salute this big brother.”

“Don’t rush to salute, let me ask you something first, you just asked us to step back, but you didn’t @ your girlfriend?”

“Do I look like I haven’t lived enough? (grin)”

You fuck,
Hahahahaha.

(End of this chapter)