The boy left in disgrace.

Raymond Lam took a puff of his cigarette and said: “My family was poor when I was young, but I still didn’t know how to make progress. I played around and missed school, and I lacked ambition.

Sometimes I express my feelings in the mountains and rivers.

Indulge in love between men and women,
Waste your life,

Over thirty.

For many years, I have been running around looking for a job.

Looking back at my youth,
Already said goodbye.

However, he has not yet married and had children, and he could not help but shed tears.

But flowers may bloom again, but people can never be young again! “

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

What the hell!

What is he doing?

Did he write a poem?

“Preface to Ma Sheng of Dongyang (Dog Head).”

“Oh my god, the military advisor is so amazing (I love him so much).”

“When I first read the preface to Sending Off Ma Sheng of Dongyang, I felt it was obscure and difficult to understand, and I didn’t know its meaning. Now, after hearing the words of the military advisor, a feeling of sadness arises spontaneously.”

“Really? This is the first time in 30 years that I have understood all of the ancient Chinese text (sigh).”

“Every sentence doesn’t mention me, but every sentence is about me (crying to death).”

“Alas, flowers may bloom again, but people can never be young again… Yes, I am 28 years old this year, and I already regret it. I think my life is really a mess (burst into tears).”

“Hey! I’m only in my 20s and I’ve been a second-generation rich man for more than 20 years (sunglasses).”

“Ahhhh! I’m going to fight you rich second generation guys!!”

“What are you fighting for? Working hard for others? (grin)”

What the hell!

It hurts my heart!
Hahahahaha.

. . . . . . .

Raymond Lam: “The soul of a 20-year-old should be passionate and free.
You can’t have your mind filled with love affairs and intrigues all day long.

You have to have positive energy!

While you are young,
You should go to see the mountains, rivers and lakes.

To see the sea of ​​stars,

To pursue poetry and the distance,
To blow the wind of freedom,

When you go to find another self in your soul.

You can’t be obsessed with your own selfish desires.

Isn’t it, brothers? “

. . . . .

On the barrage.

“In conclusion: go see the mountains, see the water, find all living things, and find yourself (dog head).”

“As expected of you, the class representative (thumbs-up).”

“Oh my god, it’s so beautiful. I love this feeling (I love it).”

“I’ve only been to the provincial capital at most. When will I be able to see all the mountains and rivers? (envy)”

“I hate nightclubs and drinking in bars. I want to see mountains, rivers, and the sun shining on the golden mountains. What I want is real love and real life (pen tip).”

“The world is so big, I want to see it!”

“I know, I know. I’m already writing the application for withdrawal (dog head).”

? ?
“Retreat again, retreat again, don’t rush me (sunglasses).”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: “Don’t ask how much money you have in your pocket, ask how many years of youth you have left.

You guys are just laughing and joking all the time, but you will regret it one day.”

okay,

Next one!

Ding~
“Hello, military advisor.”

It’s a girl.

Raymond Lam: “Hello sister, what’s the problem?”

“Today…I broke up with my boyfriend of eight years.”

Eight years?

What the hell is the difference between this and the death of a relative?

Lin Feng shook his head and said, “Tell me, what is the reason for the breakup?”

Girl: “Actually, there are many reasons.”

Raymond Lam: “Well, let me ask you, how old are you this year?”

“25.”

Raymond Lam: “So we got together when we were 17.”

“Correct!”

Raymond Lam: “How old is your boyfriend?”

“Same age as me.”

Raymond Lam: “What was the trigger for your breakup? It was because you guys had such a fierce quarrel recently.”

“Both our families are relatively ordinary, and his family might be a little worse. In the end, the quarrel was because of the betrothal gift and the issue of buying a house.”

Raymond Lam: “How much is the gift?”

“The custom here is 166,000, or 188,000.”

Lin Feng: “You also need a house. How much is the house price in your place?”

“Seven or eight thousand, less than ten thousand.”

Lin Feng: “That means a house costs about 100 million.”

“correct.”

Raymond Lam: “Let’s say the total is 120 million, including the cost of the wedding. Come on, tell me, what is his family situation like?”

“His…both parents are gone.”

? ?
Raymond Lam: “Is he an orphan?”

“Yes! His parents died in a car accident when he was very young.”

Raymond Lam: “Who does he live with then?”

“With his uncle.”

Lin Feng: “Uncle raised him, this is a favor, can you tell me how much he earns a month?”

“About five thousand.”

Lin Feng glanced at Yu Huanshui, and they both shook their heads.

Lin Feng: “Come on, sister, let’s do the math. If his uncle is unable to provide some help, and he only relies on himself to earn this 120 million,
He earns 5000 x 12 a month which equals 6.

In other words, even if he doesn’t eat or drink, it will take him at least 20 years to earn 120 million.

But my calculation is actually very, very idealistic.

younger sister,

You ask a 25-year-old boy to come up with 120 million?”

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“If you value money so much, you shouldn’t have dated an orphan (I give up).”

“Eight years of relationship have all been thrown away (vomit).”

“Rich people finally get married, poor people see it with their own eyes, I saw it clearly from the electric car (dog head).”

6
“120 million is not a lot, right? I have several hundred million during the Qingming Festival. If you want it, I’ll give it to you (raised eyebrows).”

“You have a small vision. One piece costs 500 billion (sunglasses).”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Girl: “I really couldn’t accept it at first, but then I thought about it. We’ve been together for eight years, so it must be love.
I told him that we can buy the house in a few years, and he just needs to pay the gift now.”

Lin Feng: “Does he have enough money for the betrothal gift?”

“We had a big fight because of this issue. Actually, he now has about $100,000 in savings. I told him to work harder, but he gave me the impression that he was not very motivated.”

Raymond Lam: “What does he do?”

“I just work in the factory.”

Lin Feng: “Drilling screws! Do you know what the average salary is in their factory?”

“They’re about the same, about four to five thousand, five to six thousand.”

Lin Feng laughed when he heard this.

“Come on, sister, answer me a question first, what is the purpose of you connecting to this microphone today?
I just wanted to come here to share and complain.

Or do you want to get some advice from me?”

The girl was silent for a while and then said, “I still feel reluctant. After all, it has been eight years, so there must still be love.”

Lin Feng knocked on the blackboard and said, “If that’s the case, then I have to say something serious to you.

Because if you just come here to complain, I don’t plan to say much, after all, we have already broken up.

But if you want to get back together, I tell you, you have to think clearly that he may be like this for the rest of his life.

With a salary of 5,000 yuan a month, you will have no problem with food and drink, but you won’t be very rich.
As for that 100 million house, forget it.

Find a house in a less-distinct location with a monthly mortgage payment of one or two thousand, that’s still okay.”

Girl: “Are you saying he won’t make progress for me? But isn’t it said on the Internet that if you love someone, you will work hard for her?”

Lin Feng shook his head and said, “Sister, you are too young and your understanding of reality is relatively low.

It’s right to say that if we love someone, we should work hard for her.

But you still have to know one thing.

Not everyone’s efforts bear fruit.

In reality, we are used to accusing someone of not working hard enough, but no one tells him where to work hard.

It’s like, there are 70,000 people in my room right now.

I sit here and tell them that you have to work hard. If you just use my live broadcast for free, you can’t even afford a gift. But where can they work hard?
With my limited ability and value, even if I change jobs, I will probably only make 4,000 to 5,000 yuan.
Many people may only earn five or six thousand yuan in their entire life.

Some people are in their 40s and only earn a few thousand yuan a month, and this situation is extremely common.

There’s nothing he can do. He doesn’t have a particularly high degree or skills, and he may not encounter any great opportunities in life. He can only live a mediocre life.

For example, two people get married, each earning 5,000 or 6,000 yuan, and after paying off the loan, they have more than 3,000 yuan left.

You said starve to death.
Not so much.

You say he is really lazy and doesn’t work, but that’s not the case.

He is also working.
And be serious and responsible.

But if you ask him to cross classes immediately, it’s really impossible.

Because there is no such opportunity.

It’s the kind of thing that can’t reach the sky or the ground, and is stuck in the middle.

So the problem you are facing now is not whether he is willing to work hard for you.

But assuming that this is how his life will be, with a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan, would you still be willing to be with him?

If we can be together, then let’s be together.

If that doesn’t work, then retreat.

Never have the kind of expectation that you think well before marriage, that everything will be fine in the future, or that things will be fine if he works harder after marriage.

No, sister.

To be honest, many people who are ambitious have fallen into debt in the past two years.

Because times have changed.

Nowadays, many people become less wealthy the harder they work.

Because of the hassle of doing business, making random investments, and working from dawn to dusk every day.
Do you think he works hard?
Definitely work hard.

But the probability is that the harder you work, the more you lose.

And not everyone has a direction to work towards. It doesn’t mean that if I tell you to work hard, you will earn more money next month.

no,
Many people have worked hard, but they cannot earn more money and they are stuck there.

You say that people are not beasts of burden, but if we really work eight hours a day, that’s enough and we will be very tired.

You can work overtime, but two hours at most is enough. Even if your salary increases, it will be at most 6,000 yuan.

You can’t change any reality, do you understand this?

And we are always used to asking the other party to be more motivated, maybe he will really succeed,
But have you ever thought about another question: since he has become better, why did he still choose you?
Don’t disbelieve it.

This is human nature!
The first thing you do when you get ashore is to kill the person you love with your sword.

So if we have the opportunity to make money, rely on ourselves.

If we want to make progress, we can do it on our own.

Fight for the life you want on your own, and don’t place your expectations on your partner.

So think carefully, if he gets a salary of 5,000 yuan for his whole life, can you accept it?”

After Lin Feng finished speaking, the girl fell silent.

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“There are many people who are ambitious in the past two years” and “Many people are in debt”

What the hell!

So real!

“So it’s not enough to just be ambitious, and it’s not enough to be brainless either. I’ve seen many blind efforts of entrepreneurs go down the drain.”

“It doesn’t matter if you have brains. Making money is just a game. Brains, hard work, opportunities and luck are all indispensable.”

“Yes, there are a lot of smart people, but 90% of them fail in starting a business. It has a lot to do with luck and opportunity.”

“Alas, I failed, and my girlfriend broke up with me. I have to accept the loss.”

“Military Advisor’s meaning is very simple. If you can accept it, then stay together. If you can’t accept it, then just break up. Don’t ask others to be ambitious.”

“So what is ambition? The best cattle and horses? Or the king of scrolls?”

Incisive!

Hahahaha.

“To ask a partner to be ambitious means that I lie down and you work hard to make money and support me (dog head).”

“Most people want others to become better, but why don’t they make themselves better? (I don’t understand)”

“In conclusion: It’s easy to whip others, but it’s impossible to whip yourself (sunglasses).”

What the hell!

A word to awaken the dreamer.

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: “Sister, wait a minute.
I saw someone on the public screen saying, “Is there still a salary of 5000 yuan now?”

“If you work hard, you can easily earn more than 10,000 yuan a month, not to mention 70,000 or 80,000 yuan.”

‘If your current job pays low, change to a higher salary’

What the hell!

Dude,

Then why don’t you change to a higher paying job?
What do you pretend to be in the live broadcast room?

You are so awesome, but I didn’t even see you send me a rocket!

What do you have to show off?

You are not him, you haven’t even met each other, so what right do you have to say that he doesn’t work hard?

You pretenders.
I feel that I am better than him and that it is just a matter of changing jobs and it will be easy.

But in some people’s perception, there is no way to change it.

Just like many migrant workers don’t get paid, can you say they are lazy?

Can you say his job is not tiring?

You can say you want to change a place, or change a construction site.

Is it possible that he didn’t even know that there was a second construction site recruiting people besides this one?

We talk about cognition, vision, pattern, connections, resources, and information gap.

Everyone is different.

You haven’t considered the actual situation of others, why are you pretending to be so cool?

I find that some people have very bad qualities in their bones.

What is bad character?

When others are having a hard time, you start showing off your superiority.

For example, I saw a video yesterday.
The mother bought some salmon for her daughter, saying it was her daughter’s first time eating salmon.

The mother was very happy, and the woman was also happy to eat.

In fact, it is Douyin, which records the beautiful life.

But when I opened the comment section, I saw a bunch of pretentious people.

They said it was salmon scraps and our cats wouldn’t eat it.

Then post a picture below and show off the whole salmon at home.

There was also a table full of lobsters and crabs.

I want to ask, why are you pretending?

I also told you that my dog ​​won’t eat the food you eat at home, do you believe it?

If your family had always been like this, you wouldn’t have to act so pretentiously below others.

When facing disadvantaged groups, they like to show off their sense of superiority, like some fucking nouveau riche.

Or when they see others eating potatoes, vegetables or something, they immediately post a picture of a table of delicious food, saying, “Oh, my son has so many dishes for dinner.”

There are always these people bullying the people on the Internet nowadays, and they have no mercy on the lower classes.

Just because someone’s life is not easy, you say they are lazy.

Then why don’t you be more diligent?

Why don’t you earn a million dollars a year?

There’s a big boss in my room who earns a million dollars a month, why don’t you compete with him?
Silly dog! “

. . . . . . .

On the barrage

Xiao Wan: “When others are starving, chewing quietly is also a virtue.”

Yaoyao: “That’s very well said.”

Gouzi: “I’ve never even eaten the leftovers of salmon (picking nose).”

Aaron: “I’m a country dog, I haven’t eaten it either (grin).”

Mr. Xu: “I really admire Junshi’s eloquence. It touches my heart.”

Stranger: “It’s hard for people to respect others from the bottom of their hearts.”

The stream flows: “Above me, all beings are equal. Below me, there are clear classes.”

elder brother,
Incisive!

. . . . . .

Lin Feng looked at Brother Shui and said, “There are many family hotels that cost 40 or 50 yuan in the street outside our community.
When I first saw it, I wondered who would live in a place like this.
Later I found out that my parents would live there.

Don’t my parents want to stay in a good hotel?
And why should I be sure that no one lives in these small hotels? Isn’t it unfair to those who run the hotels seriously?

Later I realized that we simply didn’t understand their lives at all, and we were just unconsciously looking down on them.

Dude, what would you do?
Would you point your finger at your dad and ask, why don’t you try harder to stay in a hotel?

Would you point at the boss’s nose and ask, why don’t you work hard to run a hotel?
So brothers,
When you want to criticize others for not working hard,
You have to remember that not everyone in this world has what you have!”

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

“On the day of my postgraduate entrance examination, I had to book a hotel in advance. I booked a family hotel closest to the examination center for 52 yuan. After I arrived at the place, I admit that I was a little disgusted.
The boss was an old man, about 60 years old, and he asked me to pay 20 yuan for the air conditioning.
I was reluctant at first and thought about booking a better hotel, but it was too far from the examination venue.

Seeing his timid look, my heart ached suddenly. I said I was willing to stay.

The uncle was instantly as happy as a child. The room was very clean and he cleaned the room himself the next day when we checked out.”

“You are a warm person, and so is the uncle (pen refill).”

“I went to the city alone to take an exam a few days ago. A double bed cost 38 yuan. I’m sorry I didn’t work hard enough (crying)”

“38 yuan…hiss, it refreshed my understanding again.”

“I won’t have a foul mouth anymore (grin).”

Hahahaha. (End of this chapter)