Chapter 118 Who says men’s youth is not youth?

On the barrage.

“Hey, it seems to be true.”

“What did the boy lie to her about?”

“She works hard and is ambitious, and she takes the initiative to show her affection. I really haven’t done anything wrong to her, have I?”

“Why do you care whether I save money or not? You are just my girlfriend, not my wife.”

“Brought it in ahead of time.”

“It seems wrong, but it also seems right.”

“Hmm…it’s hard to judge.”

“Let’s see what the military advisor says.”

. . . . .

Girl: “Military Advisor, why do you say he didn’t let me down? He clearly made a promise to me a year ago.”

Raymond Lam: “What promise?”

“He will definitely change this.”

Lin Feng knocked on the small blackboard.

“Sister, what we are discussing is whether it is right or not, it is in the relationship.”

“He gives you emotional value, gives you gold coins, cooks for you, makes your parents happy, and in the relationship, he does everything he can.

He didn’t do anything wrong to you.

Let me ask you,

What have you given for him?

In addition to the sense of superiority, strong desire for control, and practical benefits such as letting others transfer their houses and buy cars,

What have you done for him in this relationship?

Girl: “I put in the time. I was with him for two years.”

Lin Feng was amused: “Sister, who doesn’t spend time on love? Besides, isn’t this a mutual thing?

Your two years is two years, but other people’s two years is not two years?
To be honest, if he doesn’t talk to you, he won’t give you gold coins. If he doesn’t give you gold coins, with his income, he might not need online loans.

Is this true?
Of course, these are all assumptions.

Since you like to talk about reality, I will talk to you about reality.

What is the reality?
The reality is that you two, as two people in a relationship, are equal. Your time is time, and his time is also time. “

. . . . .

On the barrage.

Who says men’s time is not time?

Who Says Men’s Youth Is Not Youth?

“If you really calculate it, boys earn 40 yuan a year and girls earn 12 yuan. Obviously boys’ time is more valuable.”

No problem.

“Military advisor, this is righteousness!”

“Finally, someone said something fair for us boys.”

“The female fists will attack soon.”

“Humph, who said that the human race has no emperor? I, An Lan, blocked this punch for the human race’s emperor.”

An Lan: “Who called me? (Dog head).”

“An Lan, kneel down in the state of sin (laughing and crying).”

An Lan: “Yu Tuo, save me.”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

The girl was silent for a while and then said, “Well, I’ve never thought about it from this angle.”

The girl’s attitude suddenly became sincere.

Lin Feng couldn’t help but feel a little surprised.

“Let’s talk about transferring the house and buying a car. Sister, if he loves you, he will do it naturally.
But if you make such a request at this point, it is an act of marrying down because of a mismatch in values, and it is a psychological sacrifice of yourself. This relationship is fundamentally unequal.”

Girl: “Because when we were talking about marriage, my family said we didn’t need anything, but when we found out he had this problem, we brought this up to him, just to discipline him.”

Lin Feng shook his head: “You are not restraining him, you are being selfish and protecting yourself from your own perspective.

Because you haven’t thought about how to help him change.

younger sister,

I am now almost certain that you cannot love.

Or you don’t know how to love.

You seem to be looking for someone who is a good match for you.”

The girl was silent and didn’t say anything.

Lin Feng: “After you first discovered that he was engaging in cyberbullying, all you did was not to help him correct his behavior, but to think about how to maximize your own interests. This is a typical selfish idea.

younger sister,

A good love must be full of all kinds of flavors.

You can’t just enjoy the sweetness of love and the kindness others show you.
Now that he is facing difficulties and problems, shouldn’t we help him overcome them together?”

Girl: “But I gave him a chance.”

Lin Feng: “Sister, consumption habits are not a death sentence.

Next, think it over carefully. If you don’t love someone anymore, leave gracefully and don’t bother or slander them anymore.

You said that the whole company knew about this.
Is this interesting?

Of course, I also believe that this is not your intention.

However, if you feel that this person is really good to you and you like him, then you should find a way to correct this problem.”

The girl was silent for a while and then said, “How can I help him change? Can you give me some methods?”

Listen to this

Raymond Lam knew that the girl still had feelings for him.

So I asked, “Do you know why he plays games?”

“He wants to brush up the data, build a city, and… come up with some strategy.”

Lin Feng was amused.

This girl probably hasn’t experienced many relationships.

So he patiently said, “The core problem with playing games is that he lives an autistic life.”

You say he is introverted and doesn’t talk to people. You are also in different places and he must be bored.

He has so much money, he can play games when he is bored. You should be happy that he doesn’t think about going to have a foot bath.

What he lacks now is a way of life to replace his boring life, and this requires you to take him to find something else to do for fun.”

Girl: “Military Advisor, I think what you said is absolutely right, but many people on the barrage said that it can’t be changed, so let me break up.”

Lin Feng smiled and shook his head.

These guys.

“Sister, what can I say about playing games? It is a kind of heroic dream for boys.

It’s not realistic to ask him to stop all at once.

And we are not asking him to quit playing games.

What really needs to be abandoned are consumption habits and online behaviors.

for example,

When boys top up their accounts to play games, it’s just like girls paying for bags in installments.

You may only have 20,000 yuan in your wallet, but you like a LV worth hundreds of thousands.

You like it, no.

But the money is not enough,
You can only pay by loan or installment.

The difference between the two is that you buy a bag and he plays a game.

The common point is that they all have bad consumption habits.

So my suggestion is that you take him out for a walk, whether it’s exercise or travel.
Live a more positive and sunny lifestyle.

When he really wants to play games, you can play some small games with him that don’t require recharge.

Slowly change his spending habits.

That’s why I keep advocating that you give him another chance, because this guy is so capable.

Rural background, 28 years old, buys a house in the city center, annual salary 40, this kind of person must have many shining points.

If you can help him get rid of this bad habit.

You will definitely live a happy life in the future.”

“Thank you, Military Advisor. No matter whether we can be together in the future or not, I will come back to give you gifts.”

The girl suddenly became much brighter.

(End of this chapter)