Chapter 355#This is your life

“Impossible,” Lin Chuxia said firmly, “Not only was my eldest sister beaten, but her personal freedom was also restricted and she was detained.”

Lin Chuxia will definitely not take Qin Juan’s matter lightly.

The public security comrade nodded and said, “I understand this situation and will report it truthfully.”

After the police left, Qin Juan collapsed on the bed as if all her energy had been drained away.

Lin Chuxia handed her a glass of water distressedly, “Sister, drink some water.”

Qin Juan shook her head and suddenly smiled bitterly.

“Xia Xia, am I useless? Am I a failure in life? My life is a mess, and I still make you worry about me. I can’t even protect my own children.”

“Sis, when did it start?”

Thinking back to the first time she saw Qin Juan, Lin Chuxia felt that she didn’t look well and thought it was a health problem.

When I met Ningning during the Spring Festival, I found that the child was also a timid person.

Ultimately, it’s all about the original family’s problems.

How can a child be confident and generous no matter how much love his mother gives him if his father commits domestic violence and doesn’t like his grandmother?

And judging from Zhang Wenbin’s arrogant look, this is definitely not the first time he has attacked Qin Juan.

Qin Juan looked out the window. “I can’t remember clearly. The first time seemed to be after Ningning was born. I forgot why. He has a bad temper and likes to fight when he doesn’t agree with something…”

She lowered her head as if she was thinking about something or trying to calm herself down.

“I thought he just had a bad temper. Besides, when two people live together, there are bound to be some bumps and bruises…”

Lin Chuxia frowned, looking at her as if she was talking about someone else’s business, and felt sad.

She knew that in this day and age it was common for couples to fight with each other.

She now feels sorry for Qin Juan who is suffering from domestic violence and wants to help her escape from this misery. But how many women cannot escape this?
“Then why didn’t you think of telling your family and asking them to help you make the decision?”

Whether it is Qin’s parents, eldest brother and sister-in-law, or Qin Yang, they will not sit idly by when they know that Qin Juan has suffered such injustice.

“It’s useless,” Qin Juan shook her head. “I know it’s useless to tell you. It’s useless to make my parents worry. They look down on me because I come from the countryside, have no job and eat for free, and my daughter will end the Zhang family’s lineage…”

“At worst, we can get a divorce, sister. This is your life.”

Qin Juan smiled and said, “Xia Xia, divorce is easy to say, but look at our village, how many people would get divorced? Everyone in the village knows that I married a city girl, and they envy me for having such a good marriage. Once I get divorced and go home, how many people will say sarcastic things about me, and their spit will be enough to drown people. My parents will be criticized for not educating their children well. Qin Yang was not married at that time, and I couldn’t let my family be implicated.”

My second brother is still unmarried at the age of twenty-five or twenty-six, which has already caused gossip in the village. If he is divorced and has an elder sister-in-law who is also divorced and at home, which girl would be willing to marry him?
Her second brother was so outstanding, and as his elder sister she had never helped them in anything, so she absolutely could not hold them back in this regard.

Lin Chuxia knew that what she said was true and that was the reality, but it was precisely because of this reality that she became even more angry.

“Second sister, why are you so silly? How can gossip be more important than your happiness? Do we have to live with the gossip of others? I believe that my parents and my eldest brother think the same as I do.”

“I’m not as carefree as you. I don’t want to be a burden to my family. Besides, I know that Zhang Wenbin won’t divorce me for his future. I’ve mentioned divorce before, but he threatened me with the child…”

Lin Chuxia looked at Qin Juan and understood her helplessness and forbearance. In this backward era, a married girl is like spilled water. How many parents can truly sacrifice their son’s interests for their daughter?

Even though the Qin family is not such a family, the eldest sister lives in this era and has assimilated the cognition subtly.

In her previous life, she had seen too many parents who advised their daughters to endure for the sake of face, and she had also seen mothers who endured life for the sake of their children.

They may have thought about resisting at the beginning, but they couldn’t for various reasons, and over time, they gave up resisting.

American psychologist Han Ligman locked a group of dogs in a cage and gave the dogs electric shocks whenever a buzzer sounded.

At first, the dogs would struggle desperately to escape. After repeated experiments, the dogs found that they could not escape no matter what. So, when the buzzer sounded again, most of the dogs simply lay on the ground and didn’t even struggle.

In the later stages of the situation, the dog could have escaped, but gave up.

When we continue to experience negative events that are beyond our control, we develop a sense of powerlessness and feel that we cannot change the status quo no matter what.

Today’s older sisters and those women who suffer unfair treatment are just like these dogs. They cannot fight back, so they silently endure the injustice brought about by the concepts of this era.

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At the police station, Mrs. Zhang finally saw her son return.

The public security comrades told them that the matter would be thoroughly investigated, and if both parties were at fault, the two sides could coordinate and handle the matter.

She took all the blame on herself yesterday. Firstly, she was worried about affecting her son’s future, and secondly, her son would not ignore them since he was away.

Old Mrs. Zhang has great confidence in her son.

My son is so capable. He has reached this position in his early thirties. It won’t be long before he is promoted. Everyone who sees him will praise him for being young and promising, right?
What does Qin Juan have?
For a woman from the countryside, marrying her son is a blessing she has earned in eight lifetimes.

Even if we take a step back, this is ultimately their family affair and it is not convenient for outsiders to interfere, let alone the public security comrades.

If her brother’s wife hadn’t called the police, they wouldn’t have had to come here to suffer.

Old Mrs. Zhang had already made up her mind that after she got out, she would make Qin Juan’s brother and his wife apologize.

If she doesn’t apologize, he will let his son divorce her.

I heard that her brother has just been transferred to the city, and he must still rely on his son.

As long as divorce is mentioned, not to mention Qin Juan, her brother will have to make her wife admit her mistake.

Old Mrs. Zhang thought about it for a whole day, wondering what kind of sincerity the other party would show before she nodded. Then she saw her son being brought in by the police.

“Wenbin, you finally came to pick up my parents. How is it? Did that little bitch admit her mistake? She doesn’t dare to come in to see us, right? After beating her mother-in-law until she was bleeding, she also asked her brothers from her mother’s family to come and beat her up. How dare she come to see me? But I’m not unreasonable. It depends on her attitude after she gets home. If she does her duty as a daughter-in-law and is filial to me and your father, I can forgive her this time for your sake…”

After Mrs. Zhang finished speaking, she saw her son and the police officer standing there, with no intention of opening the door for them, and she frowned slightly.

“What are you still standing there for? Hurry up and open the door. This is really not a place for people to stay. I didn’t sleep well last night. I’ll go back early and catch up on my sleep. Oh, and ask Qin Juan to buy a chicken and stew it. I need to have a good rest.”

Zhang Wenbin said, “Mom, you may not be able to go out for the time being.”