Woman: “But I didn’t leave because I had no conscience. It was because his father really…”

Stop!

Lin Feng looked up and interrupted, “I don’t need to know how your marriage is going, and your son doesn’t need to know either.

Because that was all caused by the choices you made when you were young.

Adults’ affairs have nothing to do with him. He won’t understand you, and he doesn’t need to understand you.

I said that if you had something practical to say and told him that his father was not a good person or something like that, I think he might understand you a little.

But you don’t have any practical point. You say his father is not a good man and didn’t care about him, but then you didn’t care about him either.

When my classmates were all wearing new shoes and changing into new clothes, and when it was time to pay tuition, you didn’t come to take care of me.

From his perspective, don’t you think about him?

You have your grievances, doesn’t he have his own grievances?

Who did he offend?
You said your husband offended you, so you divorced him and ran away.

What about him?
He didn’t offend anyone.”

Woman: “I don’t want to explain anything. I just felt that if I really didn’t leave them at that time, we wouldn’t even have enough money to live on.”

Lin Feng: “Okay, you said you left for money, so what about the child asking you for money now?”

The woman was silent.

. . . . . . . .

On the barrage.

“Without money, what company do you want (grin)?”

“I guess there will be more conflicts when I come back.”

“If you weren’t there when you were young, you won’t need company when you grow up.”

“My mother came back from junior high school like this… But I couldn’t accept it at all in my heart.”

“Listen to the military advisor. It’s better to roll yourself up than roll the child up.”

“That’s the only way you can make your children understand you.”

“The military advisor has really made it very clear.”

. . . . . .

Woman: “I live in a relatively small county town, and my current savings can only support my current personal problems.”

Lin Feng: “That’s why I told you to make more money. If you don’t have money, will your children support you when you go back?

You said I have no money, so can I just accompany you?

Row!
But you must have the wisdom and emotional intelligence to be able to handle your relationship with your children, as well as conflicts and problems in life.

You obviously don’t have that ability.

If you go back now, he will definitely not understand you.

At this time, you must definitely defend yourself and pour out all the bitterness, hatred and sadness in your heart.

Your son is used to being alone, but as soon as you come back, he becomes your emotional trash can.

He has to take care of your emotions and face the pressure of the high school entrance examination.

sister in law,

Your son will only get worse because of you.

So you might as well work hard and save more money for him.

Call them more often to show concern and give them more living expenses.

In the future, provide material support to him at important moments in his life.

That’s the only way he can understand how much you appreciate him.”

Woman: “Is that true?”

Lin Feng: “What else?
Sister-in-law, you really made me laugh.

Do you still think that if you go back now, your child will throw himself into your arms and cry, saying, “Mom, I miss you so much.”

Go ahead and have your spring and autumn dreams.

I’ve been away for more than ten years and haven’t even received a phone call.

Now that I’m in junior high school and grown up, are you back to take care of me?
When you are young, you have your own choices and pursuits. In the eyes of your children, they will not think that you are working hard, but that you are having fun outside.
Now you are 43 years old. It is hard to find a job outside. You spend all the money you earn on food and drink. You have not left anything for me.

Now I don’t need you, you come back and tell me you love me, you accompany me,
Why do you think he will be grateful to you?
I don’t know what’s going on in your head.

sister in law,

You are 43 years old, and you have lived in vain. “

Woo woo woo…

The woman suddenly burst into tears.

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

“Go ahead and dream your dreams.. It sounds really good.”

“I don’t have any savings, and now I’m counting on my son to become successful. I’m really grateful (grin).”

“The child is in his rebellious period. Will he go back and make enemies?”

“The military advisor scolded me well, but I am not sober.”

“Don’t cry, who wants your cheap love?”

“In fact, the military advisor didn’t scold him. This is the most objective and practical advice.”

“I’m telling you this from someone who’s experienced this. This is true.”

. . . . . .

Lin Feng said speechlessly: “It’s all my own fault, there’s nothing to cry about, sister-in-law.

Putting all that aside,
Didn’t you say you wanted to go back and accompany your children in their studies?
Then let’s talk about studying.

For example, he now takes out a word problem and asks you how to do it?
Can you give him an answer?
You are 43 years old now. To be honest, you have returned the things you had in school a long time ago.

To put it another way, even if you can.

Can your problem-solving ideas be the same as your teacher’s?

Let me tell you, with today’s exam-oriented education, you only have to find professionals to solve the problem.

For example, when I was in college, my cousin asked me questions on his phone, and I thought I got them right.

As a result, the teacher said that the question was wrong the next day.

I say why?

It’s obviously right.

As a college student, am I not able to solve junior high school application problems?
As a result, the teacher said that the first one did not write the solution.

Deduct one point first.

Then secondly, the ideas I gave them are what they will learn next semester.

For this semester’s exam, you must use this semester’s thinking to solve the questions.

So don’t you think it’s fucked up?

But this is the most distinctive exam-oriented education in our country.

So many times, professional matters are left to professionals.

So what do you think is needed to hire a teacher to give your child extra lessons?
It’s still money!

You are 43 years old, and it is rare that you have a relatively satisfactory job, so save more money.

It is more effective than you confessing to your son ten thousand times.”

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

“Hahahaha, I didn’t write “unbuttoning”, it’s too real (laughing to death).”

“I like to write the solution first (dog head).”

“The solution to this word is really just for math (dog head).”

“I didn’t want to write it, but the teacher said I couldn’t hand it in blank (sunglasses).”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . . .

The woman left.

Lin Feng sipped a mouthful of instant noodles and said, “Dad doesn’t care, Mom doesn’t want it, the sky is falling.

You say you have your own difficulties, but why should your children understand you?
After more than ten years away, there wasn’t even a phone call from him during the holidays to show his concern.

Let’s say that when children are in elementary school, that is also the time when their bodies grow the fastest. Have you ever thought about sending a pair of sneakers to their home?

Brothers who have children in the room should all know that children’s feet grow very fast. Unlike clothes, they can wear shorter or tighter clothes.

If the shoes are too small.

It’s really uncomfortable.

When we were young, if our parents didn’t pay attention, the children themselves wouldn’t be able to figure out what was going on. Their shoes were too small and they felt a little crowded, but they were willing to wear them.
Sometimes you use a finger to measure the shoe. If the shoe fits perfectly and the front part reaches the top, but you can still fit a finger in the back, then it is a suitable shoe.

If it can’t fit in, it means the shoes are too small and you need to change your child’s shoes.

Maybe the shoes you bought this semester may not be wearable next semester.

But if mom and dad are not around, he doesn’t know who to tell and he can only wear it like that. As a result, when the child’s feet grow up, you will find that his toes are bent.

It’s because I wore those little shoes too much when I was a child.

The child felt pain every time he ran, but he also knew that his family had no money, his father was useless, and his mother could not be found.

He has to endure the pain.

He has gone through those hard times and is now in junior high school. He has grown up and has independent thoughts.
You are telling me now that you have gone back to love him, you are talking nonsense.

To be honest, there is really no need for you to go back now, because this love is gone, that’s an ironclad fact.

You can only give love through material conditions in the later stage and heal in both directions. At that time, the child may be able to understand your difficulties.

Don’t be crazy and run back to make enemies now!
It’s a blessing for him to be alive as his father doesn’t care about him and his mother doesn’t want him.

A brother said it well on the public screen just now.

It is better to roll yourself up than to roll your children up.

sister in law,

You should figure it out for yourself.”

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

“Material compensation is the way to compensate for the lack of emotional companionship. This is very realistic and correct (thumbs-up).”

“Please keep some innocence for the children and don’t talk too much about realistic things. You have to handle adult matters yourself.”

“That’s right. Don’t use moral blackmail on your children and ask them to understand and love you… Give them more money first and then slowly ease the tension.”

“The shoes are so real, my toes are still bent now (crying).”

“Buy your son a pair of better shoes.”

. . . . . . .

“@Military Advisor, can you trust fortune tellers?” A highly praised comment passed by.

Lin Feng took a look and said with a smile: “This thing is well calculated, just believe it.

If you can’t calculate it, don’t believe it.

Remember, this is all there is to fortune-telling: just listen to what you like to hear.

Because generally speaking, if something really big happens, the fortune teller wouldn’t dare to tell you.

So when a fortune teller says good things about you, for example, you will be rich and prosperous, and live a long life,
Then you believe it.

Just think of it as our old tradition, accumulated over thousands of years, I believe it still makes sense.

But if the fortune teller says that you are not good, for example, you have a pointy head and thin ears, you will not be able to do anything well.

Just remember, that guy is just an old-fashioned Taoist priest, he can’t calculate anything.

They are all dross and feudal superstition.

The young people of our new era definitely cannot believe in that stuff.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“In conclusion: if your left eye twitches, you will be lucky, and happy. If your right eye twitches, you will be unlucky. Damn the feudal superstition (dog head).”

“Military Advisor: Those who obey me are gods, those who disobey me are superstitious (sunglasses).”

“It’s a selective fetish (grin).”

“Our ancestors always said to act according to circumstances (raises eyebrows).”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: “In the past, fortune-telling was called asking for good luck.

For example, in the past, when someone’s family had a new baby, a new descendant was born.
The elderly in the family would carry the children up the mountain to the Taoist temple, or go to the temple to draw divination sticks and have fortunes told for the children.

The old monk or Taoist priest, in order to seek good fortune and incense,
I will definitely say some auspicious words.
For example, this child has a good destiny and will be able to pass the imperial examination in the future.

All in all, they were all good words.

After all, it’s just for the sake of good luck, so how dare I say anything bad?

If I really have to say something bad, I’m afraid you’ll destroy the temple.

So I can’t say this against my will, but it must be very tactful.
It’s just that you can’t hear it.

For example, if a fortune teller really tells you that you will never have to worry about food and clothing in this life, then the truth is that what you earn in this life is at most just enough to eat and drink, with nothing extra.

To say that you have a relatively stable life is, the truth is, you actually have no future and you can’t accomplish anything.

Saying that you have a kind heart and can’t do bad things actually means that you are a complete wimp.

If someone says your horoscope is OK, then OK is not OK. If you are really lucky, how can you say it is OK?
Saying that your horoscope is okay actually means that it is really not that good.

Your horoscope is good, but what it means is that your fate is really average, and you can find a lot of such people everywhere.”

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

“Master: You are destined to be a virgin in this life. Subtext: Your man is a playboy, a philanderer, and has three harems and six courtyards.”

“My goodness, you need high emotional intelligence to do this job!”

“It’s over. My parents went to a fortune teller for me and that’s what he said (crying to death).”

Not running yet?
Hahahaha.

“Master: I have many benefactors in my life. Subtext: I always run into bad things, but I can’t die (sunglasses).”

“That’s to get stuck with the buff, to act crazy and try like crazy. Anyway, there are many noble people and everything will be even in the end (laughing to death).”

“So true, there are indeed many noble people, but every time there is a foreshadowing (grin).”

“Just ask, what does it mean to be blessed when old? I have been living by this saying.”

“It means that if you are not blessed when you are young, you will get used to it when you are old (smile).”

Cry!

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: “God damn, you were not blessed when you were young, but you get used to it when you get old. Sister, don’t listen to his nonsense.

Do we think fortune telling is accurate?
Why do I tell you that if you like what you hear, then believe it; if you don’t like what you hear, then don’t believe it.

Because if a person can even predict your fortune and misfortune, and says that you are unlucky when you are young but lucky when you are old,

If someone can even calculate one’s fate accurately, then he must be a god on earth.

Can you understand what that realm is?

Because a person’s fate is constantly changing.

For example, if you do a good thing today, or a bad thing today, it will affect your future possibilities.

Relatively speaking, if you have a good fate, but you never do good deeds and always commit evil things, then you may be unlucky in the end.

Even if your fate is very bad, but you do good deeds every day, you may meet a good person one day and form a good relationship with him, and your life may get better afterwards.

Do you understand?

That is, a person’s fate is always changing.

He is not like many fortune tellers who tell you about your past and you think it is quite accurate.

Because the past has already happened, it is a fact and cannot be changed.

But he talked about your future, and whether you will be blessed or not when you are old.

Just don’t believe it.

Because fate is always changing, no one can be sure.

If he could really predict future fortune and misfortune, even life and death.

That is almost equivalent to the level of what we now call the City God.

What’s more, at this level, he doesn’t dare to speak casually, do you understand?

There is a cause and effect here.”

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

“I can do it, but I won’t show it to others. First, I’m afraid of being called a liar. Second, if I say something, I’ll have to take the blame for others.”

“This is called the secret cannot be revealed (sunglasses).”

“And meeting a true master also depends on fate.”

“I went to calculate last month, and it said that the harder I work, the richer I will be. I used to be an agent, but I was fired at the beginning of the month. Now I make four yuan per order on Meituan. It is true that the harder I work, the richer I will be (grin).”

“Just tell me whether it’s accurate or not.”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . . .

Lin Feng was speaking excitedly when his eyes suddenly moved to the lower right corner of the screen.

What the hell!

Lin Feng was shocked at the time, and quickly sat up straight, saying to the room: “What kind of fortune-telling, metaphysics, is that? It’s all rubbish.

We are all young people of the new era, why do we believe in that stuff?
Brothers, there is no metaphysics, no fortune-telling.

Not allowed, not allowed.

I don’t believe this.
I only believe in our nation, I only believe in our motherland and our people.

emphasize again,

I am a materialist.”

“well said!!”

Yu Huanshui’s sudden shout startled Lin Feng.

Yu Huanshui said righteously: “What kind of fate is this?
Who wants fortune telling?
The education I received since childhood told me that if I fall behind, I will be beaten.

So many things happened here, have you forgotten them all?
Learn about the history of the Qing Dynasty.

That’s a history of blood and tears.
It started with the Qing Dynasty, and we have suffered a century of humiliation. If it weren’t for our technological power, our country would have developed the atomic bomb.

Would there still be the peaceful era we have today?”

Yu Huanshui was filled with righteous indignation and was passionate.

Lin Feng was stunned by what he heard.

It was not until he saw the look in the other party’s eyes that Lin Feng slammed the table and quickly took over.

“Brother Shui said it well!

Which God are you praying to?

Which Buddha to worship?

As a staunch materialist.

All I know is that the souls of 30 dead have not been vindicated yet, but people have already made changes to the textbooks.

Bros,
Wake up,
Don’t be stubborn anymore.

Looking back on the founding of the country, how many wars have we fought against North Korea and Vietnam?

Our peace is not for nothing.

Still believe in metaphysics and fortune-telling?
Do you really think our peace came for nothing?

The most recent war happened only a few decades ago, if you look back a bit.

How many ancestors paid with their blood and sacrificed their lives to bring us the peace we have today.

You are crazy if you believe in fortune telling.

Believe it if you want, I don’t believe it anyway.

Besides, if praying to gods and Buddhas is useful, then Palestinian children would receive worship and believe in God from a young age.

Look at what’s going on now. Where is Jesus?”

Lin Feng slammed the table and stood up. Yu Huanshui cheered loudly beside him. Looking at the eyes of those two people, they were determined as if they wanted to join the party.

If they had been born a few decades earlier, they would probably have picked up guns and gone to the battlefield.

The barrage was full of “Oh wow”.

“What are these two doing?”

“Are you crazy about gain and loss?”

“I just fell asleep and scared me.”

“Let’s say, is it possible that he was warned by the authorities (dog head)?”

“Fuck! No wonder I keep emphasizing that I’m a materialist (covering my face).”

“I was wondering why your expression suddenly changed, hahahaha.”

“Let’s not talk about anything else, just look at whether that wave of output just now was positive energy or not (sunglasses).”

Awesome! (End of this chapter)