Chapter 281 How can a wild grass survive the bitter winter?
Lin Feng stood up from his chair and said to the live studio;

“No, guys. I’m so hungry. I’m going to get a bucket of instant noodles.

Brother Shui, what flavor do you want?

Braised or pickled cabbage? “

Yu Huanshui said hurriedly: “I’ll go.”

Lin Feng waved his hand: “I’ve been sitting for too long. I’m just going to stand up and walk around. You sit here. If the brothers on the public screen have any questions, just tell me.”

Yu Huanshui: “Okay, I don’t eat pickled cabbage.”

Lin Feng nodded: “Then let’s have braised ones.”

Walking out of the screen, Raymond Lam stretched his body.

The rental house is not big, only 80 square meters.

The kitchen is next to the living room.

Lin Feng filled the kettle with water and plugged it in.

Then open the bucket of instant noodles and sprinkle the seasoning packet in advance.

At this time, Brother Shui’s voice came from the living room.

“A sister here said, if there is someone who is very good to you, and he has infiltrated your life, and you have become accustomed to his existence, how can you let him go?”

Lin Feng shook his head. He was another love-brained person who couldn’t be killed.

Turning to the living room, he said, “Brother Shui, ask her what has infiltrated your life?

How exactly did he seep in? Did you fall in love with the rain?
The rain seeps into the earth, nourishing all things and you, right?

Or maybe you fell in love with a virus and it infiltrated your cells.

I don’t understand what you mean, sister. How can a person infiltrate?”

After hearing this, Brother Shui couldn’t hold back anymore.

He laughed with his mouth wide open.

And he didn’t even need to learn it, because the brothers in the room had already heard it all.

“Hahahaha, it’s okay to fall in love with the rain.”

“Rainwater, virus, seepage… isn’t this fucking venom (laughing to death).”

“Get vaccinated, sister (dog head).”

Hahahahaha.

Yu Huanshui: “This sister also said that she is a metaphor, describing his presence in every aspect of your life.”

Lin Feng: “It’s infiltrated, and then bit by bit, we’re not sisters, you came to my live broadcast room to write poetry?
Do you speak so romantically in real life?
This thing of yours is too poisonous.”

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

“What a poisonous dog head.”

“It’s already marinated well (sunglasses).”

Hahahaha.

“Military advisor interrupts any young scholar casting spells (raises eyebrows).”

“This is a pure sentimental fantasy of a heroine (covering face).”

“It’s over. My quick travel story (crying to death).”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Yu Huanshui: “Sister said again, he has been with the girl for a year, and only recently found out that she was a mistress.”

Lin Feng smiled: “I have been a mistress for a year and I just found out. Sister, stop taking IV drips. Go to the hospital and get an IV drip to heal your brain.”

Yu Huanshui: “She told the anchor to stop scolding, she already knew she was wrong, she has been watching your live broadcast for a long time, and she has already been enlightened.”

Raymond Lam: “An epiphany?
I think you look like an egg-filled pancake!

If you really watched my live broadcast, you can’t come up and talk about this.

Why?

Because you don’t know that you are just being a mistress.

Now that you know, why the hell you should hurry up and run 800 miles overnight.

And you still come here to ask how to give it up?

Just ask.

Wait until your ex-wife and her best friend block you on the street.

One pulled my hair, the other slapped me.

You don’t even need me to answer you, you just know to run away.”

Lin Feng walked back to his seat carrying two buckets of instant noodles.

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

“You look like an egg-filled pancake to me… I laughed my ass off, hahahaha.”

“This guy is so funny and mean (laughing to death).”

“Principal Lin, who has low moral character, specializes in treating all kinds of love-brained people (dog heads).”

“I really love him so much, I really curse him for having such a distorted outlook on life (covering his face).”

“Go to the hospital and get an IV drip (sunglasses).”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . . .

Lin Feng slurped a mouthful of noodles, curled his lips and said: “What a sudden enlightenment! If it was really a sudden enlightenment, I would have beaten that guy up a long time ago.

I don’t know whose top it is, but it’s definitely not yours.

Really brothers,
I wish there were fewer love-brains in this world.

Next year I will run for National People’s Congress and criminalize those who fall in love with their boyfriends.

A foolish love-brain will be detained for one month.

The stupid decision of being in love is to be detained for 3 months.

The love-minded man who committed the crime was detained for half a year.

An immoral love-brained person for more than fifteen years.

A sober love brain, send it away directly. “

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

“The Love Brain is a Criminal Case”

“Be careful they talk about it in jail (grin).”

“Don’t tell me, I’m the type of person who likes the instructor (covering my face).”

“I have been sentenced to lifelong loneliness by love (dog head).”

“Sister, you may be the first one to be sentenced (sunglasses).”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . . .

Lin Feng slurped another mouthful of instant noodles.

This caused everyone in front of their phones to swallow their saliva.

come on,

Next person.

Ding~
“Hello, military advisor.”

It’s a female voice.

It feels a bit old.

Raymond Lam: “Hello, what’s the problem?”

Woman: “Military Advisor, I am 43 years old this year. I want to ask about my child’s problem.”

Lin Feng: “You tell me first.”

Woman: “I divorced early in life, and my child lived with my father. Our two families were about 800 kilometers apart, so it was considered a long-distance marriage at the time.

So after the divorce, the child was left with them, and I was always away from home and not with the child.

Now my child is in junior high school. People say that this is a very important time for children to go to junior high school, so I want to go back to accompany my child. The most important thing is that although he lives with his father, his father doesn’t take care of things and has always been working outside.

So I wanted to go back and spend time with my children.

But what I am struggling with now is that I am not young anymore. I am already 43 years old, and it is difficult to find a job.

But I am quite satisfied with my job now, including the salary, working hours and so on.

I was struggling with whether I should give up this job and go back to my children.”

Raymond Lam: “Choose between children or work. If you ask me for my opinion, I would choose work.”

? ?
The woman looked confused.

Lin Feng took a sip of soup and said, “What’s wrong, sister-in-law? Are you confused?

Are you thinking that everyone else is advising you to give up your job and go back to spend time with your children, but why am I the only one asking you to choose a job?

Are you a little confused?

Don’t be confused, sister-in-law. When I asked you to choose a job, it didn’t mean that work is more important than children.

But… the child doesn’t need you at all.”

woman:? ? ?
Lin Feng was speechless: “Not sister-in-law, is this hard to understand?

it is good!
Let me be more straightforward.

As for companionship, you have missed the best time.

It is an established fact that your child will hate you.

My child is now in junior high school and is in the rebellious stage of adolescence.

Not to mention that you have been missing out on so many years of companionship, the two of you have no emotional foundation at all.

Even many harmonious families find it difficult to maintain a good relationship with their children at this time.

Plus, you went there with the idea of ​​managing his studies.

Let’s be honest, don’t make yourself miserable.

After being away for so many years, there hasn’t been a single phone call from anyone showing concern.

Now you come back to supervise my studies?
The child will absolutely hate you.

So instead of talking about companionship, you might as well offer something practical.

What is practical?
Can you see if you can compensate me a little bit materially?

Don’t wait until the time comes when there is no one to accompany you or any material things.

Now that you think this job is good and you are quite satisfied with it, you can save more money for your children.

Call more often and show concern.

Give more living expenses.

Especially at some important life junctures,
For example, when your child graduates in the future and feels confused, you can say to him: Child, stay calm. It doesn’t matter if you haven’t found a job. Mom will give you more living expenses this month.

Or he is getting married, son, it doesn’t matter if your dowry is a little short, mom will make up the difference for you.

For example, if he wants to buy a house and is short of money for the down payment, you say that your mother has saved some money for you over the years and you can use your mother’s money.

Right.

Only when you can actually solve his problem can he appreciate your kindness.

Only then did I start to think whether I had misunderstood my mother all these years.

Maybe my mother has been away from me for all these years so that she can save money for me.

Only then will he understand how difficult it is for you.

Otherwise, if I think back, you didn’t accompany me when I was a child, and you didn’t provide me with any financial support when I grew up and got a job and got married.

My mother is getting old, and she still needs me to give her some money every month.

The sky has fallen on that child.

Are you my mother?
You are not my mother!”

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“The sky is falling, kid, hahahaha, I am dying of laughter.”

“The military advisor has a strong analytical ability (thumbs-up).”

“Really, my first reaction was to go back and be with my children.”

“Goodbye, you need company in elementary school, and you will slowly let go in junior high school. Now go back to study, I hate you so much (grin).”

“Give at least one of love and material things. The military advisor is really clear-headed (strong).”

“Yes, it’s hard to find a job nowadays, help him save some money.”

“When he needs help at a critical juncture in his life, give him help. He will thank you. What the military advisor said is very realistic and down-to-earth.”

. . . . . .

Woman: “But he is in junior high school now, and I feel that academics are more important, so I think I have missed his elementary school and can’t continue in junior high school…”

Stop it!

Lin Feng said unhappily: “Just based on the reason you just gave, you should give up the idea of ​​going back.

You didn’t care about me when I was a child, and now you want me to become successful?

Bullshit!
Let’s be honest.

When I was a kid and in school, several children would drown in the river in that rural area every summer vacation.

Your son has been neglected by his father and unwanted by his mother since he was young.

Let’s say something unpleasant.
He is lucky to have lived to this age.

What more do you ask for?
What qualifications do you require?

You ignored me when I was a kid, and now that you’re back you can’t provide any practical help. Who wants your cheap love?”

. . . . . . . .

On the barrage.

“He is lucky to have lived to this age… I feel the same way and I am crying my ass off.”

“Dad doesn’t care, mom doesn’t want me…birth is hell (sigh).”

“Who wants your cheap love… Well said!”

“Not spending a cent means companionship, right? (grin).”

“This is a great mother (dog head) who doesn’t want to take responsibility but wants the love of her children.”

“She’s not my mom (grin).”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . . .

Raymond Lam: “Let’s be more realistic.

In the past ten years,
Where were you when your child had a fever or a cold?
The child had a high fever of 39 degrees Celsius and was in a daze. He kept calling for his mother in his dreams and his tears wet the pillow.

Where were you during parent-child activities at school?

Other mothers are holding fruits, their babies are eating watermelon, their mothers are wiping your sweat, but your child can only hide in the corner of the playground, spying on other people’s happiness like a thief.

Maybe I would comfort myself in my heart, thinking that it’s okay, mom will come back, and I will be able to eat the fruit she prepared for me during the next parent-child activity.

School is out, where are you?
The classmates threw themselves into their parents’ arms one by one. The family was having a great time, talking about the interesting things that happened in school as they walked.

Where are your children.

Longing for envy, loneliness and inferiority.

He even waited until all the parents at the school gate had left before leaving.

why?
Because he hopes so much that one day you will appear at the school gate, hold his hand warmly, and listen to him talk about interesting things in school.

Where are you when it’s time to find parents for a parent-teacher meeting?

The classroom is full of classmates’ parents, but your son’s seat is always empty.

Where were you when your classmates laughed at you for being a motherless child?

We say that children without mothers are the most likely to be bullied in school.

Every time after being beaten, your child can only drag a schoolbag with a broken zipper, gently pat the footprints on his clothes and pants, and then walk home alone with his head lowered and numb eyes.

Maybe after I get home,
I would also be severely beaten by my drunken father…

How can a wild grass survive the harsh winter?

sister in law,

I think you have never thought about this question in the past ten years, right? “

(End of this chapter)