Chapter 144 The best gift is a lifetime of accommodation
Lin Feng: “Sister, your marriage shouldn’t be unequal.”

Girl: “But he doesn’t think so.”

Raymond Lam: “There is only one possibility, that is, the other party’s parents earn a lot and the other party’s family is well-off.”

“Yes.”

Lin Feng knocked on the blackboard: “So this is the problem.”

In the essence of this marriage, both of you have made contributions.

But the other party, relying on his or her family background being better than yours, thinks you are trying to climb up the social ladder.

He and his family have a condescending attitude.

Therefore,
In this relationship, the other party often engages in extreme behavior such as throwing things.

Or they accuse and abuse you without reason.

Because deep down he thinks you are trying to climb up the ladder.
He despises you.
That’s why we will sanction you.

Even if you do a lot of things to please him, he still thinks you are entitled to it.”

Girl: “Maybe, he thinks I got a great deal by marrying him.”

Raymond Lam: “Sister, you didn’t emphasize your own contribution here.

You have to tell him,
Didn’t I pay?

Am I not at work?

I know you have made contributions, but you cannot deny mine.

I admit that your family conditions are better than ours, but we live our lives alone.
I am not saying that I must have you in my life. If you continue to treat me like this, and continue to blame and suppress me for no reason,
No one can live with you.”

Girl: “I understand, but Advisor, there is another problem. He wants to buy a house. I offered 10, but he said no, at least 15 or more.”

Lin Feng: “How much is the betrothal gift? Let me find out first.”

“20 million!”

Lin Feng: “Has this 20 always been in your savings?”

“Correct.”

Raymond Lam: “So what he meant was to use the gift money to buy a house.”

“Yes, but I think this money is a guarantee for me. I said it’s a maximum of 13, no more, and then he got angry again.”

Wait a moment.

Lin Feng knocked on the small blackboard.

“You said before that we bought a house before marriage and you contributed 10 yuan. Now you are buying another house and you are asked to contribute 15 yuan. I am a little confused. Are these two houses or one house?”

Girl: “One.”

Depend on!
Two mental patients!

Lin Feng knocked on the small blackboard.

“Come on, sister, tell me why you don’t want to use the betrothal gift to buy a house?”

Girl: “I want to keep some security for myself.”

Raymond Lam: “I think you are mentally retarded.”

???

Raymond Lam: “You still thought you were in love? Sister, you have been married for two years. You are husband and wife.

You lack the awareness that marriage is a joint endeavor between the couple.

Now it feels like two families are fighting against each other.
But sister,

In fact, you two are a family.

You don’t live your life as if it belongs to you.
As long as you have the awareness of managing your own family within your marriage and both of you have a common goal, these things will not exist.

Maybe many girls in the live studio will oppose what I am about to say.

But you have to think about one thing.
After buying a house, it is also the common property of the couple.

You cannot say that the bride price is your personal property and that your husband has to pay for the house by himself.

Doesn’t that mean he has something against you?

. . . . .

On the barrage.

“I’m a woman, and I personally think that since two people are married, their property is already shared, and there’s nothing wrong with using the betrothal gift to buy a house.”

“Don’t call me a woman. Just say what you think. Why bother adding gender?”

“That’s right. I used the betrothal gift to pay the down payment after we got married. In the end, we got divorced. He said that he was the one who paid the mortgage, so why should he give me half? It disgusts me to death.”

“In the face of personal interests, even if you are his father, it is useless. Morality, character, education, and face, you will find that they are worthless.”

I rely on!

“Getting married is like getting into Tsinghua University.” Xiao He Liu said, “Calm down, just go through the legal process. He doesn’t have the final say.”

Clicked.

. . . . .

Girl: “So I should give all the gifts, is that right?”

Raymond Lam: “I only analyze emotional issues, you decide what to do.”

All I can say is,

Legally,

The bride price is the woman’s personal property.

You don’t have to take it out because it’s your own money.

But don’t forget that you are a couple.

If one pays and the other is unwilling to pay.

Then what is the meaning of marriage?
of course,

If you finally decide to pay the bride price.

Before that, you must make it clear to the other party.

Our days, we live together, I can take out the betrothal money, because you are my love,

I hope we can live well.
But don’t think that I’m always trying to get something from you.

This needs to be made clear to your husband.

At the same time, if the other person gets angry with you next time, you must be tougher.
Talk about your contribution to the family.

Don’t let him feel like you’re always clinging to them.

All right,

That’s all I have to say.

I’ll carry you down, sister.

“Thank you, military advisor.”

. . . . .

Hang up the mic,
Lin Feng smiled and shook his head at the live broadcast room.

I was wondering why it seemed more and more wrong the more I listened to it.

I was almost distracted by her subjective narration.

Fortunately, I grasped the general direction, otherwise I would have been misled by her.

At first I thought they were buying a house before marriage, and the girl’s family gave 10 yuan, which I thought was pretty good.

The result is to buy a house after marriage.
This thing is a home shared by two people.
Shouldn’t both of them try their best?

How come there are yours in here? Mine?
Even if you get divorced one day, this will still be the common property of the marriage.

I was almost confused by her.

But then again.

Her husband’s accusations and suppression in the relationship, including losing temper and throwing things, are indeed wrong.

Let’s not do this, brothers.

. . . .

On the barrage.

“Just smash it. I feel good smashing it. I especially love smashing bowls. Who knows the sound?”

“I used to look down on people who smash things, but later on when I got angry I found that smashing things was very intimidating, and since then no one in my family dared to make me angry. (Laughing and crying)”

“I like to smash my phone. I used to feel so sad when I smashed a phone worth more than 10,000 yuan. Later, I changed to a phone worth less than 3,000 yuan. I still smash it when I’m angry, but I don’t feel sad anymore.”

“More than 1999 is not cheap. I paid 1899 or , and I was very happy.”

“When someone hangs up on you or treats you coldly, you just throw it. The main purpose is to feel good.”

“I just broke the remote control (dog head)”

Hahahahaha.

Attached

[Military Advisor’s Comments: The best gift for a man is a lifetime of indulgence, and the best dowry for a woman is a lifetime of understanding.

In fact, no matter who you are with, you will quarrel and break up.

It is better to leave this life to the one with whom we have quarreled and broken up many times.

But still unwilling to leave! 】

(End of this chapter)